I love high heels and I love my legs in high heels too.
Unfortunately, I can't be comfortable in stiletto's so I just don't wear them
It's no use to have fantastic legs but also a face crumpled with annoyance and pain and a walk similar to a drunk storch.
I know however what type of high heels are more comfortable: the ones who have an elastic texture and a bit of a platform too. Also, very important not to bee tight or too narrow in front.
I have however friends who wear high heels on a daily basis and never complain. They look great, walk suple and everything is fine. One of them told me she actually feels weird and clumsy wearing flat shoes.
Sigh. Oh, the envy....