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Originally Posted by fleetiebelle
Dude, if you've got a foot fetish and painting your own toenails makes feel like a better person, then rock on with yourself. But, you have absolutely no ground to stand on by accusing everyone of living a lie or being slaves to conformity. Live how you want and mind your own business. It's a good rule of thumb for everyone.
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Hi, good morning to you...I see I've been summoned out of the dungeon...
it's dark and lonely down there...but you get use to it after a while...when people aren't around...your safe...
Now about the above topic...it's funny I was just blogging about this on another forum....exploring thoughts, my own thoughts...
I'm not trying to force thoughts down anyone...I just wanted people to examine themselves...what makes 'you' tick....your own perimeters and why?
Who set those perimeters up for you? did you or someone else?
And why are you, we, afraid to cross those invisible perimeters?
Is it that we fear isolation and the persicution that usually follows?
Or is it a moral perimeter within some?
I simply wanted people to look inside of themselves and examine their own strenths and weaknesses....
these are questions only you can answer for yourself...
And of course, in order to keep the conversation going...you, I , have to ask more questions and or challenge some of the premisise being presented...
My other threads I started got shut down, cause people started getting 'unruly'....
Yes, I have a flair for doing certain things...but only when alone...it's like an excercise in personal growth...personal fortification...and it actually makes me stronger to deal with people in real life...
Getting over my little fears, has helped fortify me...
Anyhow I'm probablly loosing you...my thoughts are deep.
Ok, anyhow...I guess it's back to my dungeon now...in the basement...until I'm summoned again....it's the price you pay for daring to be different on the outside...even if it's just in photos...it's the price you pay as a male anyways...
Females arent under those same constraints...there allowed the full spectum of expression...guys are expected to be stoic, and simply comment on female beauty, rather than noticeing their own....
Later dude....
*Side note: I'm in a catogory all my own, many on here so want to lump me into the 'gay' catogory, but even gay people ostricize me...gay is just the flip side of hetro, a one dimensional sex drive...a identity derived from sexual prefence...a notion of who you are, and how you define yourself simply based on your sexual drive or attraction. Gay is the flip side of hetro...sex driven identities...
That is not me...
I find that small and very limiting...I don't define myself in terms of gender, rather I define myself in terms of 'spirit'...