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Originally Posted by JimKing
Thanks for the info....you pretty much sealed the deal for us, Naples is off the list. The more research I do, it is not very kid friendly or dog friendly. I loved Jupiter Farms, you got 2.5 acres of land and in 15 minutes you could park for free right next to the beach and walk your dog anytime.
Looks like we will be renting in Parkland and pursuing our daughter's tennis in Boca Raton.
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Hi there,
I am living in Naples and I have to agree and disagree with some points made on the forum. Dog friendly ...for sure. I have three dogs and they are always welcome at one of the many parks around and especially the doggie parks made just for them. The beaches as well and there are stores(most actually) will even let you bring them on in and even restruants with outside seating have no issue so for pets its a great place...
People...specifically it depends on your income and your status to be perfectly honest with you. I am a middle class mother of 2(11 and 20) and mys on always finds things to do now that he is out and about on his own but my 11 yr old is always bored but I must say it isnt for lack of things for her to do it is for lack of wanting to pay over 1000 for 6 wks of day camp for example and there are lots of parks for them to play in and all that but the programs that they run are very expensive and public trans although it is available is not something I am willing to put my daughter on to go to one of them while I work etc.
The area itself is very nice but it for sure is for the affluent. I have living in NY, NH and MA all my 45 yrs except for the 3 yrs here and I have never seen so many rude ignorant and downright nasty people in all my life(and not they are not all transplants..I dare say they are the friendly of the lot) people here just think they have the right to be snobs, treat people as servants or less than. I cant wait to leave...It is a land of paradise if you visit but if you live here you better have DEEP pockets...A basic house is 300K plus and the taxes and homoenwers alone will run you 10K a year right now..Collier especially is very expensive to live. I do love the beaches etc but I just cant justify living her anymore. I am going to GA where it is more family friendly, diverse and kid friendly as well as a place I can own a home and actually afford it and have money left over for every day life as well as things for my daughter to do. I cant do that here...And sad to say I dont think anyone of normal means can...Sad but true..Naples is going back to a RICH town and no one under 100K a year is going to even be able to breath here let alone live...
As far as Sex Offenders....You have to keep in mind that those stats (alarming as they are) are also based on a teen who has a relationship wtih a teen and the parent or parents brought charges even though it was a consentual relationship or a parent going thru a divorce charges the dad with letting a kid watch a movie that she deems inapproriate and charges are filed and or a number of other factors other than the "typical" sex offender charges. I have lived in many places and having an 11yr old I am always aware of what and who are around and so is she. I have never felt threaten or anything for my child other than the normal parent dont do this and that etc...I feel safe in Naples. Now Ft Myers that is another story...Alot of crime and murders drive bys etc...Not saying Naples doesnt have its share they do but I have never been afraid to live here or to raise my daugher here. I just taught my daughter early on and gave her a cell phone and tools to use and hope and pray everyday that she listens to them and uses what she must if ever a situation comes at hand. Sad to say I dont care where you live they are everywhere and that is not going to change until the laws do. I remember things when i was a kid but never like this and sad to say its not getting any better...Good luck with your search..I have never been to Boca but have heard nice things of it...