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Old 02-16-2011, 08:46 PM
 
Location: Bay Area, CA
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Another co-worker refuses to eat anything that has any pork products in it, including bacon or sausage
Could that be a cultural/religious thing? It is with me (I'm Jewish), and it's pretty bad when people aren't even sensitive to that... I've had co-workers order ONLY pepperoni pizzas, and then they're shocked when I decline. Even if they know I'm Jewish!
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Old 02-16-2011, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Central Texas
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Are the co-workers ordering pizza for the office or for themselves and offering to share? Are they paying for it or are you chipping in? Do you order pizza for the office and, if so, do you include pepperoni ones out of consideration for those who do not share your religious beliefs?

I believe in respecting the religious beliefs of others, but there's too many questions here to make a call on this one.
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Old 02-16-2011, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Me too. Only my choices include ONLY "Take it" or "Leave it."

I ALWAYS tell a potential guest what we are having. They can take it or leave it. My feeling is that if they don't show up, just means I have more for lunch tomorrow. Few picky eaters ever accept my offer for dinner. This week (since Sunday) dinner has been served 4 times in my house. Sunday, we had smoked mozzarella, prosciutto, baked escargot with melted brie, Italian bread, crab dip, and tortilla chips with wine. Monday we had breaded venison chops with fluffy mashed sweet potatoes, Tuesday we had lamb shanks braised in red wine with couscous, Wednesday we had a meatloaf......a really nice blend of ground venison, american bison, and pork served with a brussel sprout/broccoli/cheese casserole. I had a nice mixed drink with each meal....tonight it was a dirty martini, a decent burgundy, and a brandy aperitif. Tomorrow will be steaks. Friday will be a Chinese restaurant in the city. Saturday, it being close to 75 out, I am planning on smoking a goose.

I doubt the typical picky eater would be interested.
When can I come over??
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Old 02-16-2011, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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When can I come over??
Pick me up on the way?
I have wine!
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Old 02-16-2011, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, Nevada
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Could that be a cultural/religious thing? It is with me (I'm Jewish), and it's pretty bad when people aren't even sensitive to that... I've had co-workers order ONLY pepperoni pizzas, and then they're shocked when I decline. Even if they know I'm Jewish!
No, she's African-American, and not Muslim either! She's one of these people with a very sensitive stomach, who oftentimes says: "Ooh! That just didn't agree with me!"

Once in a blue moon, she can't resist an all-beef hot-dog and she suffers the rest of the night!

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Old 02-16-2011, 10:49 PM
 
Location: Bay Area, CA
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Are the co-workers ordering pizza for the office or for themselves and offering to share?
At my old job, the boss would order lunch for our meetings every Friday... it was intended for the whole staff, and usually they were good about getting a variety (or asking for orders ahead of time). But sometimes they'd forget & just get non-Kosher stuff! I never complained, though, even if my boss asked flat-out if I was unhappy. I'd just say "It's okay, I'm not really hungry right now."

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Are they paying for it or are you chipping in?
The company paid.

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Do you order pizza for the office and, if so, do you include pepperoni ones out of consideration for those who do not share your religious beliefs?
If I ever order anything for a group, I get a wide variety of options... my own brother prefers pepperoni, so I'm used to getting that stuff. Therefore yes, I have included pepperoni in my own orders - I'm not offended by pork, just prefer not to put it in my own stomach.

But no, I've never ordered food for an office (schools/libraries in my case)... since as I said, it was usually company-paid and/or boss-provided. I do occasionally provide snacks/dinner for my students, but the funds are not from my own pocket. At the school where I used to work, all the kids wanted were hot Cheetos & pepperoni pizza - so that's what I got!! My typical order for a group of 20+ kids is 3-5 pepperoni pizzas & 1-2 cheese, which usually works out perfectly.

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Old 02-16-2011, 11:02 PM
 
Location: Bay Area, CA
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No, she's African-American, and not Muslim either! She's one of these people with a very sensitive stomach, who oftentimes says: "Ooh! That just didn't agree with me!"

Once in a blue moon, she can't resist an all-beef hot-dog and she suffers the rest of the night!
That's totally me too! I'm not actually that religious, just culturally Jewish - and half of my family eats pork with glee. But I can't even stomach cow beef these days, so I stopped eating it altogether about 5 years ago... I've since lost 60lbs (not just b/c of the no-beef rule), and my stomach is SOOOO much better. I do give in to the occasional Kosher hot dog, though, and like your friend I usually suffer later.
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Old 02-17-2011, 04:56 AM
 
Location: Oxford, England
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Me too. Only my choices include ONLY "Take it" or "Leave it."

I ALWAYS tell a potential guest what we are having. They can take it or leave it. My feeling is that if they don't show up, just means I have more for lunch tomorrow. Few picky eaters ever accept my offer for dinner. This week (since Sunday) dinner has been served 4 times in my house. Sunday, we had smoked mozzarella, prosciutto, baked escargot with melted brie, Italian bread, crab dip, and tortilla chips with wine. Monday we had breaded venison chops with fluffy mashed sweet potatoes, Tuesday we had lamb shanks braised in red wine with couscous, Wednesday we had a meatloaf......a really nice blend of ground venison, american bison, and pork served with a brussel sprout/broccoli/cheese casserole. I had a nice mixed drink with each meal....tonight it was a dirty martini, a decent burgundy, and a brandy aperitif. Tomorrow will be steaks. Friday will be a Chinese restaurant in the city. Saturday, it being close to 75 out, I am planning on smoking a goose.

I doubt the typical picky eater would be interested.
Can I come over ?!? Please ? I would be devouring all this with great gusto believe me !

I suppose picky eaters are good for one thing, more for us normal eaters !!!
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Old 02-17-2011, 05:16 AM
 
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They make it difficult to cook with variety. It's a hassle.

How I deal with them depends on who it is. In the case of my SO, who I share a home with, it's tricky. In the case of friends who are ultra picky/have self-imposed dietary restrictions that are not easily worked around (vegan and such), I simply don't invite them over for a meal. I socialize with them in other contexts, where this won't be such an issue. I used to worry that I might seem rude for never cooking for them, but I figure it's probably something they're pretty used to.
DH's family and oldest daughter are all vegetarian/vegan/raw food vegan. I always have Christmas dinner at my house - they'll usually relax the rules on that day and won't get upset if they ingest some eggs/dairy. I make plenty of vegetable dishes (in addition to a turkey, for us), and I usually have one or two salads, fresh fruit, and raw vegetable appetizers for the raw food vegans but, again, they don't make an issue about ingesting a little cooked food one day a year. They'll bring their own entree, usually. I can't afford to make a separate menu for everyone, and my vegetarian cooking expertise is a bit lacking.
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Old 02-17-2011, 05:54 AM
 
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My sons' friends are interesting to feed. I just ask: what do you like to eat? And, if the 20 year old 85 pound gal says Oh I usually just have a salad, I never say are you vegan? Because for some people it is a fashion statement as much as a life choice. So I just say Do you eat cheese . . . fish . . . shellfish . . . eggs, etc. Then if she's not really a hard core vegan I can make a really great salad. If right out of the box she says I'm a vegan, I don't even go there. She is getting a piece of frozen vegan "lasagna" from the health food place next to a spring greens and nuts salad. No dressing. Its called self defense and I always am prepared for that eventuality. But, unless i get a really hard core answer I'm good to go with adapting the plan to a picky eater. No cheese, no problem. The salad will have roasted sweet red peppers instead. No shellfish, ok, I like mushrooms and cheese in the pasta just as well.

Its really quite fun, IMO.
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