Since nobody has responded, I'll post something so you don't feel left out.

I doubt if you'll get too many comparisons from people with experience. Lakewood is in Sarasota and Lely is in Naples. That's a difference of over 100 miles. One is an 8,500 acre planned community and the other was built as a country club and is about 3,000 acres. Other than that, you'll probably have to tour both places to get your own opinion.
You weren't thinking of Lakewood in Naples, were you? Entirely different from Lakewood Ranch.