Fort Myers/Cape Coral area (appointed, insurance, new house)

[dreemcatcher]

Well, I came to the area last weekend for house hunting and to look around. I know it was just a first impression, but I was really pleased with what I found. After reading some of the posts on here, I was thinking maybe it would be very disappointing. Quite the contrary. Maybe it depends on where one is coming from, not having moved much before, or having unreasonable expectations. I know I may have a different opinion after I've lived there, but I'm sure I've lived in worse places-like where I'm at now. I will say that most of the people were very friendly and I like that they are from all over.

Another thing I'd like to share: for anyone coming to the area, please don't stay away from Fort Myers. When we were driving around, there were nice and not so nice areas in both Fort Myers and Cape Coral as in any town. For me being newly single at this time, I think it may be better for me to be in Fort Myers where there are more things at my fingertips. However, in the future I may like Cape Coral.

Bottom line is: you know what you like more than anyone else. Everyone has preferences and opinions. Take the information from this board to assist YOU in making the best decision for you and/or your family.

[nhkev]

Originally Posted by dreemcatcher

Well, I came to the area last weekend for house hunting and to look around. I know it was just a first impression, but I was really pleased with what I found. After reading some of the posts on here, I was thinking maybe it would be very disappointing. Quite the contrary. Maybe it depends on where one is coming from, not having moved much before, or having unreasonable expectations. I know I may have a different opinion after I've lived there, but I'm sure I've lived in worse places-like where I'm at now. I will say that most of the people were very friendly and I like that they are from all over.

Another thing I'd like to share: for anyone coming to the area, please don't stay away from Fort Myers. When we were driving around, there were nice and not so nice areas in both Fort Myers and Cape Coral as in any town. For me being newly single at this time, I think it may be better for me to be in Fort Myers where there are more things at my fingertips. However, in the future I may like Cape Coral.

Bottom line is: you know what you like more than anyone else. Everyone has preferences and opinions. Take the information from this board to assist YOU in making the best decision for you and/or your family.

your bottom line quote was perfect, I love reading posters first impression (good or bad) on another thread a poster said it rained everyday and there were no trees and wasn't for her, which is just as valuable as someone that likes it there. I think your advice on using the thread to find out info the good the bad the ugly is great. It has helped made me aware of issues like the town utility expansion program and it's assessments, the school choice issue, chinese drywall, how cape coral is divided into the nw,ne,sw,se sections, answered questions about insurance and taxes, gulf access vs fresh water access, all good topics.

[hiknapster]

I like reading honest, first impressions, too. Some people go to a place and hate it and others love it. What I might love, you might hate.

This board is really good for people that have preconceived notions about a place. A lot think "Florida" and picture palm trees and an aquamarine beach where, no matter their problems, the weather will perk them up. A lot think "Tennessee" and think they are going to live on the side of a mountain and no matter what happens, that beautiful scenery will always make them feel better.

Neither is true.

If you can get past the people that have their own ulterior motives, the forum has a lot to offer.

Of course the real test is when you live somewhere, for awhile. I don't think I finally admitted to myself that I really hated Florida for at least a few years.

[dreemcatcher]

I've lived lots of places including Alaska, Spain, Hawaii, and California. Some people just hated the place and counted the days until they could leave. It was like they made a choice to be miserable. I always said there is a bit of paradise in everyplace. Even in Alaska, where it is too cold for me and not much to do for me, the mountains are beautiful and there's little humidity. And California~I thought that was my dream place to live. Coming from the east coast, California seemed like it would be paradise. I was disappointed and it never felt like "home". I remember living in Spain for six months and waking up in a panic because I realized we still had 2 1/2 years left . Then I got a grip and absolutely LOVED it; cried when we left.

So I suppose I am excited to move to Fort Myers, will have a period of adjustment, and then it will be up to me what I make of my experience. And if I really don't like it, it doesn't have to be forever. I can move again. I'm hoping that's not the case, though .

[Donna-501]

Originally Posted by dreemcatcher

I've lived lots of places including Alaska, Spain, Hawaii, and California. Some people just hated the place and counted the days until they could leave. It was like they made a choice to be miserable. I always said there is a bit of paradise in everyplace. Even in Alaska, where it is too cold for me and not much to do for me, the mountains are beautiful and there's little humidity. And California~I thought that was my dream place to live. Coming from the east coast, California seemed like it would be paradise. I was disappointed and it never felt like "home". I remember living in Spain for six months and waking up in a panic because I realized we still had 2 1/2 years left . Then I got a grip and absolutely LOVED it; cried when we left.

So I suppose I am excited to move to Fort Myers, will have a period of adjustment, and then it will be up to me what I make of my experience. And if I really don't like it, it doesn't have to be forever. I can move again. I'm hoping that's not the case, though .

You have a good attitude about the move and I think you will like it here. FL in general isn't for every one. To me it seems you either love it or hate it.

Yes, it gets hot in the summer but the winters are wonderful. No matter where any one moves to you may like some things and not others. If you choose to look at the positive you will find it. I love it here and have lived in Cape Coral for 16 years now. Lived in FL 26 years. Good luck on your move.

[firsttimeowner]

I like your outlook............I will be comming to florida this week to buy a home..........and start a new chapter in my life. I think this board allows you to get in touch with your feelings buy writing them as you think. I know its not 100percent where I want to be but I have to buy within my means if I want to own and having a pool and fenced in yard for my dog and a bedrm for my 12 yr old son and a new house as opossed to a 45 yr old tiny aptmt in san diego will hopefully make me happy along with all the wildlife and water adventures and seeing cool lightning and maybe living through a hurricaine.....lol.......but it will be a new experience. So I better just jump in and do it. Its now or never for me to buyand I will have a paid off home in a short time.......thats gotta be a good thing......even if it is in Florida.

[hiknapster]

Originally Posted by firsttimeowner

I like your outlook............I will be comming to florida this week to buy a home..........and start a new chapter in my life. I think this board allows you to get in touch with your feelings buy writing them as you think. I know its not 100percent where I want to be but I have to buy within my means if I want to own and having a pool and fenced in yard for my dog and a bedrm for my 12 yr old son and a new house as opossed to a 45 yr old tiny aptmt in san diego will hopefully make me happy along with all the wildlife and water adventures and seeing cool lightning and maybe living through a hurricaine.....lol.......but it will be a new experience. So I better just jump in and do it. Its now or never for me to buyand I will have a paid off home in a short time.......thats gotta be a good thing......even if it is in Florida.

Sounds like you have a good plan! Do you have a job lined up or are you one of those very fortunate people that can work wherever they go?