Wow!1 Such a motivated mom you have there!!!
I suggest looking at apartments that offer section8 rentals and take her there. Give her a pay as you go phone and have her call you or your siblings to run errands for her.
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Originally Posted by spl1981
Thanks for all the advice guys. BTW, I'm a guy.
I have 2 sisters, but neither one really wants to deal with the situation. One of them is 25 and just got a new apartment not too long ago with her fiance. My dad was actually living with them before they moved but he's a severe alcoholic and they ended up having to kick him out. The last thing they want is another person with severe issues. She's offered to help find alternatives but said there's no way that my mom or my dad will be able to live with them because of all the drama. My other sister is 23 and isn't on speaking terms with either of my parents.
I agree that we are going to have to go back to social services and figure out what the options are if we aren't living together. I do get the feeling that she's using me so that she doesn't have to move on with her life. She keeps complaining to me that she doesn't know what she's going to do once I'm gone, but every suggestion I give her she finds some reason to shoot down. I told her tonight that we should go to social services tomorrow morning before I go to work and her response was that she hasn't taken a shower in a few days. I said well you could take a shower tonight and she pretty much blew it off and said she didn't feel like it.
So frustrating...
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