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Old 07-25-2015, 08:06 AM
 
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Abuse, abuse, not yet another abuse claim. Whenever I look I hear abuse, the world went mad, every woman was abused, every man it seems was labeled an abuser. Why women need this rationalization crutch? Hey, pal, I see better suited guys in my future, see ya and your annoying unsatisfying ways, it is not wrong in wanting what would better my life, I'll keep shopping around, best of luck. So simple. Does that word have any tangible meaning at all? As George Carlin put it "women are crazy and men are stupid". You are abusing your kid by robbing him of a father. And as a career driven gal, you are not much of a mother yourself, it is not a priority anyway. I wish your kid luck.

It is in my experience but women who start from little exaggerated claims of abuse to facilitate their quest for hapiness end up with real abusers and real abuse at the end. They (not you) sought a blissful spectacle and abusive guys are good actors. Perfect match I wish you to avoid.

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Old 07-25-2015, 09:06 AM
 
Location: Orlando
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Abuse, abuse, not yet another abuse claim. Whenever I look I hear abuse, the world went mad, every woman was abused, every man it seems was labeled an abuser. Why women need this rationalization crutch? Hey, pal, I see better suited guys in my future, see ya and your annoying unsatisfying ways, it is not wrong in wanting what would better my life, I'll keep shopping around, best of luck. So simple. Does that word have any tangible meaning at all? As George Carlin put it "women are crazy and men are stupid". You are abusing your kid by robbing him of a father. And as a career driven gal, you are not much of a mother yourself, it is not a priority anyway. I wish your kid luck.

It is in my experience but women who start from little exaggerated claims of abuse to facilitate their quest for hapiness end up with real abusers and real abuse at the end. They (not you) sought a blissful spectacle and abusive guys are good actors. Perfect match I wish you to avoid.
So which are you, RememberMee?
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Old 07-25-2015, 09:11 AM
 
Location: Miami
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Abuse, abuse, not yet another abuse claim. Whenever I look I hear abuse, the world went mad, every woman was abused, every man it seems was labeled an abuser. Why women need this rationalization crutch? Hey, pal, I see better suited guys in my future, see ya and your annoying unsatisfying ways, it is not wrong in wanting what would better my life, I'll keep shopping around, best of luck. So simple. Does that word have any tangible meaning at all? As George Carlin put it "women are crazy and men are stupid". You are abusing your kid by robbing him of a father. And as a career driven gal, you are not much of a mother yourself, it is not a priority anyway. I wish your kid luck.

It is in my experience but women who start from little exaggerated claims of abuse to facilitate their quest for hapiness end up with real abusers and real abuse at the end. They (not you) sought a blissful spectacle and abusive guys are good actors. Perfect match I wish you to avoid.
LOL wow,something is really wrong with you! How do you even think to type "exaggerated" when you know next to nothing about me or my situation? I am a great mom, how dare you? I know better than to raise a son who will talk to women in the way that you do!

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Old 07-25-2015, 10:00 AM
 
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LOL wow,something is really wrong with you! How do you even think to type "exaggerated" when you know next to nothing about me or my situation? I am a great mom, how dare you? I know better than to raise a son who will talk to women in the way that you do!

smh
I have a crystal ball and plenty of statistics. If you reconciled (even temporarily) with an abusive guy that means 2 things. a) you have serious issues, b) you exaggerate a little. Stop abusing the word "abuse". Sure, an absent father, a career mother. You son got a jackpot. Single mothers tend to raise sons destined to be used and abused by women, remember that.
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Old 07-25-2015, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Aiken, South Carolina, US of A
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Mcsyddy,
How would you feel if your mom did that to you when you were a kid?
Seriously, ask yourself that.
Would you miss not seeing your daddy when you grew up?
What are you going to do without his parents and your parents to lean on?
No babysitting whatsoever? Your child's grandparents are very important in his or her
life, mine was for me, so, you are also depriving your child of grandma and grandpa.
2 sets. His parents and yours.
When you become a parent, you can't make decisions based on what you only want anymore.
Your child HAS to come first. That is how it is.
That is your answer.
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