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I don't think there is a right answer to this conflict. I moved from Pa to the South years ago and suffered for four years from loneliness, a sense of alienation, and envy of all those around me with extended family. Eventually I came to appreciate and even love my new home. But--was it right to be away from family all these years. I really don't know.
But I tend to think the reward of independent living, relying on my own resources, and gaining a broader sense of life has been life-enhancing.
I would say that with a good job and a happy life in your new place you will build many memories and have many friends and create your own traditions. Just don't linger over regrets like I did. Read about culture shock and be determined to enjoy the adventure.
And--arrange for continued family contact with email (I didn't have that!), phone, and a few visits back and forth a year. Make it a priority and maybe, just maybe--you can have your cake and eat it too. Good luck!!
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