As I understand it you're looking to figure out where you'd like to live?
If so, I suggest doing some thinking and reading - make a list that prioritizes what you like/enjoy/find important. Things to look at can include weather (snow, rain, etc), proximity to amenities (ie a big airport, a stadium to attend games, etc), cost of living, tax burden, location (on a coast / lake or near mountains etc), and maybe population size (as you've already said you want a bigger city). Once done you can refine that to be more particular to other things you find important. Once you've done that you can look at Wikipedia, visit the city's section on here and also look at any websites there or also the city's travel website if it has one
For example my list has been regular snow, low cost of living, 500,000+ metro with easy (8 hours or less) access to other metro areas. Cities that I feel would work for me include Indianapolis, St. Louis, Kansas City, Salt Lake City, Milwaukee, and Minneapolis / St Paul.
Also you may want to go to
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) and do the quiz - its pretty good at figuring a list of cities you may want to live in.
Best of luck in finding your perfect place to live