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Old 05-09-2013, 12:32 AM
 
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I'd recommend Chicago but since you don't want NYC and LA type, I'd say Dallas; if you want a smaller city, Columbus might be a good choice especially with your last criteria
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Old 05-09-2013, 05:10 AM
 
Location: East Mt Airy, Philadelphia
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I find it impossible to believe.
If you don't believe what's posted then why ask for advice from this forum?
I live in Philly and agree with the earlier post: it's a great place to live, partly because of the people. They have opinions about everything and are very unfiltered when they talk. But in my experience, they also listen, and that makes this the kind of town where you're never at a loss for conversation. It also has a lot of open space, including a bike trail that goes nearly uninterrupted from Center City (aka "downtown") to Valley Forge, almost 25 miles away. Cost of living is reasonable for a city this size, and we have four distinct seasons with a minimum of "oh my god, when will this crappy winter weather end?" days.
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Old 05-09-2013, 02:55 PM
 
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1) Denver, Colorado. Sacramento, California but then none of them are that diverse.

2) Austin, Charlotte, Miami, Denver, Sacramento, SFO.

3) Austin, Charlotte, Raleigh, Sacramento, San Diego, Miami, Tampa.

4) No where in US, well California is an exception, esp. LA, SFO and San Diego. Also check out Seattle and Miami. Learn Spanish and lie to them that you are Hispanic, most women dislike talking to you if you are Indian, you would score more "brownie" points if you pass for a Hispanic male, just saying. There are exceptions to the rule however.

5) Miami, expensive. Same with the places in CA. You could try Portland Oregon.
So why is the case with number 4 the way it is?
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Old 05-09-2013, 02:56 PM
 
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OP, what do you have to offer besides brown skin? I suspect that if you can't get a date where you are located now, you won't suddenly find yourself to be popular just by moving to a new location.

The majority of women do not choose their dates by their skin color. So, what wonderful attractive things do you have going for you that would make a women want to spend time with you?
I can't have dating success in my current area with White women, I have been with latinas and brown women though. As for what I have to offer, well I plan on being a doctor and I am an outgoing guy. Also I am a good looking person as well (made it into beautifulpeople.com).
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Old 05-09-2013, 05:06 PM
 
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still welcoming all serious answers
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Old 05-09-2013, 05:29 PM
 
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My first thought was Denver...
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Old 05-09-2013, 06:25 PM
 
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My first thought was Denver...
have you seen brown men - white women couples there?
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Old 05-09-2013, 06:51 PM
 
Location: In the heights
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still welcoming all serious answers
You're still missing the point. Nearly every major city and a lot of podunk ones have no issue with this. Where the issue is on the individual basis. If you're neurotic and fetishize people to the point where they aren't people but just part of a category, then you will be avoided for the most part no matter what race you are. Someone who is successful and not creepy has a decent chance anywhere and a better chance in larger cities. Someone who is charismatic, has attractive attributes and not creepy has a good chance anywhere s/he goes. Work on yourself and stop being creepy.
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Old 05-09-2013, 09:48 PM
 
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You're still missing the point. Nearly every major city and a lot of podunk ones have no issue with this. Where the issue is on the individual basis. If you're neurotic and fetishize people to the point where they aren't people but just part of a category, then you will be avoided for the most part no matter what race you are. Someone who is successful and not creepy has a decent chance anywhere and a better chance in larger cities. Someone who is charismatic, has attractive attributes and not creepy has a good chance anywhere s/he goes. Work on yourself and stop being creepy.
I am not creepy. And also, in Atlanta, Indian men - White women couples do not exist.
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Old 05-10-2013, 12:18 AM
 
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Denver, by far.
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