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Not that 30's is old, but what I'm getting at is that big city life tends to appeal to and attract 20-somethings. So, I am just curious if people in their 30's, 40's and older can enjoy or prefer big city living. The whole idea of big city living seems to be marketed to young people. But at the same time, there are many young people who prefer quiet, suburban living.
Also, one of the reasons I'm asking this is because I have not lived in a large city since I was 23 and now I'm 31 and concerned if I'm going to be too old to move to a city like Chicago, Philly or DC, since I'm looking for jobs in those places as we speak.
What do you think?
Center City Philly, and adjacent neighcpborhoods, has tons of empty nester people(Boomers primarily)and even elderly people. I'm one of them. We love city living. And, factually, today's seniors, in Center City Philly, were the ones who kept the area viable and attractive enough that it was poised for all the positive things that have happened over the last 10-15 years.
There are plenty of empty nesters pushing urban development in cities across the country. Those are the two demographics that are driving infill and urban revitalization. But, I'm sure you know there are others (albeit in smaller numbers) who enjoy big city living as well. It's not impossible to enjoy raising a family in such an environment.
Yes, many people 30+ years or much older enjoy the city life, myself included. Also, i know young families who love raising the kids in the city, and families who only hang in the burbs.
Its all a matter of your desired lifestyle. I'm a city person and miss the amenities of the DC area (and hope to get back there). You have options and can shoot up 95 and hit a bunch of cities/states with tons of culture/amenities/beaches.
The areas you applied for work are nice, and you'll never be bored.
Enjoy the journey.
Cool. I was never a big city person really, but I would not live in the urban core of the city. I would just live in the outskirts. Nonetheless, I will continue applying for jobs in NYC, Philly, DC and Chicago.
The title of this thread "Older people over 30" caught my attention. The thought that younger folks think 30 is old really took me off guard . The answer to your question is yes, some people even at an advanced age like 40 or older still enjoy urban living. lol I don't live near a real big city so my opinion may not count for much, but I know that some senior citizens even enjoy the amenities of the city. Also cities like Chicago or DC have plenty of suburbs for those who don't like the density of big city living. I would check cost of living before moving to any coastal city. I would be willing to bet that Chicago is cheaper than is DC, and that will matter for your quality of life.
30 is old until you get to about 28 and then you start realizing there is still so much you have to do before you hit it and not enough time to do it.
30 is a huge psycological barrier. Our twenties are about finding ourselves, having fun, enjoying life, having new experiences, etc and urban living goes right along with this. Our thirties are supposed to be about setting down, getting married, raising a family, settling into boring routines, and living the traditional American Dream(TM).
I agree with an above post. I live along Route 95 between Boston and Providence. Much of the real estate market in both downtowns is being driven by empty nest near or past retirement folks. They are selling their over-sized colonials out in the burbs at considerable gain and exchanging them for smaller condos in the city. Those that are not yet retired like no longer having a hellish commute. All of them love having amenities like restaurants, shopping, culture, and entertainment within walking distance of home.
Not that 30's is old, but what I'm getting at is that big city life tends to appeal to and attract 20-somethings. So, I am just curious if people in their 30's, 40's and older can enjoy or prefer big city living. The whole idea of big city living seems to be marketed to young people. But at the same time, there are many young people who prefer quiet, suburban living.
Also, one of the reasons I'm asking this is because I have not lived in a large city since I was 23 and now I'm 31 and concerned if I'm going to be too old to move to a city like Chicago, Philly or DC, since I'm looking for jobs in those places as we speak.
What do you think?
Nah... after 29, you're pretty much only suited for the farm.
The title of this thread "Older people over 30" caught my attention. The thought that younger folks think 30 is old really took me off guard . The answer to your question is yes, some people even at an advanced age like 40 or older still enjoy urban living. lol I don't live near a real big city so my opinion may not count for much, but I know that some senior citizens even enjoy the amenities of the city. Also cities like Chicago or DC have plenty of suburbs for those who don't like the density of big city living. I would check cost of living before moving to any coastal city. I would be willing to bet that Chicago is cheaper than is DC, and that will matter for your quality of life.
Although I prefer suburbs, on the outskirts of large cities myself..
CLOSE to the action but still relatively peaceful.
Totally agree with this! I love the greenery of the suburbs and being able to drive and park comfortably in the suburbs. But being close to the city, you still have access to nightlife, restaurants, and entertainment in the city.
Totally agree with this! I love the greenery of the suburbs and being able to drive and park comfortably in the suburbs. But being close to the city, you still have access to nightlife, restaurants, and entertainment in the city.
True, and its even better when there's public transportation from the burbs to the city where you don't have to worry about paying for parking, burning fuel, and a ride home just in case you had 1+ too many beverages
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