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Old 04-06-2017, 10:07 PM
 
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Hello!
I'm a young lesbian looking for a new city to move to. I'm from New York, so I'm looking for a place to move that's warmer. I'm looking for a place to move to with hot, fit femme/tom-boy lesbians. What cities have the hottest lesbians? Anyone have any idea where they're at? Thank you .
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Old 04-06-2017, 10:55 PM
 
Location: Cbus
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Hello!
I'm a young lesbian looking for a new city to move to. I'm from New York, so I'm looking for a place to move that's warmer. I'm looking for a place to move to with hot, fit femme/tom-boy lesbians. What cities have the hottest lesbians? Anyone have any idea where they're at? Thank you .
You will probably want to consider other factors such as your budget, employment prospects, culture etc.

In terms of warm weather LGBT friendly cities with substantial lesbian populations...

Austin
Fort Lauderdale/Miami
Long Beach
West Hollywood/LA
San Diego
Houston
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Old 04-07-2017, 03:29 PM
 
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Hello!
I'm a young lesbian looking for a new city to move to. I'm from New York, so I'm looking for a place to move that's warmer. I'm looking for a place to move to with hot, fit femme/tom-boy lesbians. What cities have the hottest lesbians? Anyone have any idea where they're at? Thank you .
As a gay man who travels/has traveled a lot I have seen where in many cities you might think would have a diverse lesbian population more of a butch/tattooed/spiky haired/not very fit mainstream. Perhaps the more active outdoor culture in places like Miami, Ft Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, Tampa and St Petersburg are more attractive to the type of person you're after, but would start down here for sure.
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Old 04-07-2017, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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Austin's crawling with them here. Never met so many lesbians as here in Austin. My son has a friend who has two lesbian moms, my ex-girlfriend had a 16 year old niece who was staying with her because she came out from AZ to "come out in Austin". So all her lesbian friends would hang out at the house. I learned a lot about the community that I would have never known.

What struck me as different than say the Bay Area was that the Bay Area seemed a gay man's hang out place (of all ages) and most lesbians were older (not sure about NYC) but Austin seems tailored to age 20 something lesbians. They are basically moving from around the country to come here because they hear about how tolerant it is.

They are not concentrated in any part of town though.
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Old 04-07-2017, 08:24 PM
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Location: Miami
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Old 04-07-2017, 08:28 PM
 
Location: Minneapolis, MN
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There's attractive people anywhere, and there's lesbians anywhere (though yea you'd wanna be somewhere with at least a substantial LGBT population too).

I hate when people ask questions like "where are there attractive people?" Not only is it a superficial and shallow question, but its not like anywhere has a monopoly on attractive people or some places are devoid of attractive people. I'd focus more on the actual city and what you want from a place to live. I'm from Miami which is stereotyped as being "full of beautiful people" I mean, I guess but a lot of those "beautiful people" are either dumb as rocks or shallow and stuck up, usually a mix of both. But you could find attractive lesbians anywhere. Any city with an LGBT presence will have an attractive lesbian.
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Old 04-08-2017, 05:40 AM
 
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There's attractive people anywhere, and there's lesbians anywhere (though yea you'd wanna be somewhere with at least a substantial LGBT population too).

I hate when people ask questions like "where are there attractive people?" Not only is it a superficial and shallow question, but its not like anywhere has a monopoly on attractive people or some places are devoid of attractive people. I'd focus more on the actual city and what you want from a place to live. I'm from Miami which is stereotyped as being "full of beautiful people" I mean, I guess but a lot of those "beautiful people" are either dumb as rocks or shallow and stuck up, usually a mix of both. But you could find attractive lesbians anywhere. Any city with an LGBT presence will have an attractive lesbian.
It's actually a somewhat valid question given the tendency of the LGBT community in many cities where a majority have a similar look, whether men or women. Don't ask how or why, since I don't have an answer...but there it is.
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Old 04-08-2017, 10:24 PM
 
Location: Minneapolis, MN
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It's actually a somewhat valid question given the tendency of the LGBT community in many cities where a majority have a similar look, whether men or women. Don't ask how or why, since I don't have an answer...but there it is.

I mean the only thing I can think of is either fashion or ethnicity, like if you're more attracted to Latina women Miami might have more options etc. but I don't really think there's much of a difference over all.
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Old 04-09-2017, 09:34 AM
 
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Old 04-09-2017, 04:29 PM
 
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I mean the only thing I can think of is either fashion or ethnicity, like if you're more attracted to Latina women Miami might have more options etc. but I don't really think there's much of a difference over all.
It's deeper than that, like the varying sub-groups with gay men where you have the muscle/beefcake, twinks (effeminate and young), bears (burly and hairy), the artsy tatooed type...the list goes on. It's the same type of segmentation for lesbians where the opposites of differing groups rarely crossover. The lipstick/femme/glam types aren't found in many LGBT communities en masse as much as they are in South Florida and a few other places where typically the look is either much more "butch", are heavy with a bigger frame or pierced/tattooed in flannel and jeans. In other words the OP's topic is very much on point and speaks to the reality in many cities.
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