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Old 11-14-2009, 08:07 AM
 
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Honestly, alot of AA men are into WW, which is fine, but it does put a huge damper on BW's prospects. Personally, the biggest irony I've found is that women straight from Africa get alot of play from white guys. Maybe being either out west or in a cosmopolitan city of the NE/South would be the best move.

Canada and England are other options as well.
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Old 11-14-2009, 08:36 AM
 
Location: from houstoner to bostoner to new yorker to new jerseyite ;)
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I agree with posters who said major cities like Houston, Atlanta, and the South in general. Never been there, but it seems like Chicago would be a good place, too. I don't think a little podunk town in the Midwest will be the place for the catcalls you're looking for. Or try NYC. Women get catcalled there all the time!
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Old 11-14-2009, 11:28 AM
 
Location: from houstoner to bostoner to new yorker to new jerseyite ;)
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Maybe being either out west or in a cosmopolitan city of the NE/South would be the best move.

Canada and England are other options as well.
I would add Germany as well, but I guess that doesn't help the OP.

American men of any race are not where it's at, IMO, when it comes to pursuing women. The dating game is nuts, too much superficiality and game-playing involved. The mating ritual these days involves intricate dance steps I guess I never learned. I don't know what's happened (feminism? ), but things are not as simple as they were in my mother's day. Personally I've had far better luck with men from other countries.
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Old 11-14-2009, 11:40 AM
 
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I would add Germany as well, but I guess that doesn't help the OP.

American men of any race are not where it's at, IMO, when it comes to pursuing women. The dating game is nuts, too much superficiality and game-playing involved. The mating ritual these days involves intricate dance steps I guess I never learned. I don't know what's happened (feminism? ), but things are not as simple as they were in my mother's day. Personally I've had far better luck with men from other countries.

Eh. As an "American Man", the knife slices both ways. But yeah, we guys sometimes screw ourselves over too.

I'm kinda in the same perdicament as the OP. Where to the girls dig olive-skinned intellectuals?
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Old 11-15-2009, 03:32 PM
 
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Honestly, alot of AA men are into WW, which is fine, but it does put a huge damper on BW's prospects. Personally, the biggest irony I've found is that women straight from Africa get alot of play from white guys. Maybe being either out west or in a cosmopolitan city of the NE/South would be the best move.

Canada and England are other options as well.
Not as much as one might think: Black African American Demographics Population Just scroll to the bottom
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Old 11-15-2009, 03:36 PM
 
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I would say that you should spark up some conversation with a guy you might be interested in. Like some have said, there isn't anything wrong with initiating things with a guy. with that said, if you are looking for a place where there are higher ratios of Black men to Black women, try cities like San Francisco, Seattle or a city with a strong military presence like San Diego or the Tidewater/Hampton Roads area of Virginia, for example.
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Old 11-15-2009, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Bronx, NY
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Well I love Black women lol. So if you want we can talk lol=). Anyways, you can try any military city or any place that is diversed. NYC, Miami, LA etc..
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Old 11-15-2009, 11:41 PM
 
Location: 30-40N 90-100W
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Personally, the biggest irony I've found is that women straight from Africa get alot of play from white guys. Maybe being either out west or in a cosmopolitan city of the NE/South would be the best move.
I don't think that's that odd. I think "foreign" is exciting for a lot of people regardless of race, gender, or nationality. Some women are very into guys who are French or Spanish or Mexican. You see this in other cultures too. Many Japanese guys go for the blond Western look. Japanese businessmen going to foreign lands mostly for the hookers became a cliche that you see in Japanese fiction too, like one story I read by Shusaku Endo. I don't think it was unheard of for black veterans of the Korean War or Vietnam War to have a relationship with a woman from those places.

Usually the stories I'm meaning it's more for sex or a short-term relationship rather than any lasting commitment. Although there are certainly exceptions to that coming from very different cultures may put a strain on anything long-term.
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Old 11-16-2009, 10:23 AM
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Location: Queens, NY
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so...you lived in maryland and asked this question??

DC is your immediate answer. at least for east african women.

i'd think ATL maybe, if you wanted to stay in the south. otherwise, NYC is great. DC takes this tho, IMHO. DC has many, many, many, maaany fine east african ladies. yes sir...

silver spring, md has a lot too, which is why your question baffles me..
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Old 11-16-2009, 11:22 AM
 
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If you can't get any black women in DC, then your game is weak! Plain & simple.
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