Do you have any regional preferences--North, South, East or West?
There are communities in which you might find suitable housing.
It is rather time consuming to list all the possibilities that meet your criteria:
--Access to DSL
--Safe neighborhood
--Open minded people
--$50-100,000
--2/3 bdr
Sometimes I just drive through areas that seem interesting to me and try to imagine what it would be like to live in an area for weeks, days and years.
Single adults particularly need some means of finding a 'Network' or meeting others, jmo. Also--would you consider a townhouse or some of the new 'Close Together' houses? (I'm certain there is a name for these--cannot think of an appropriate descriptor at the moment.) Or do you prefer an older home-- older neighborhood, etc
This type of FYI is helpful to posters who might have ideas for you.
sls