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Old 04-16-2018, 09:43 AM
 
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Our DIL has been in Florida with the triplets now over 2 1/2 years, never came home. We finally found out last month and our son explain the whole thing to us. He is now seeking for divorce and custody of the triplets. This women had permission for Christmas only, the nerve she had to take the triplets and enroll them in Florida schools. She is now living with her parents and what do we think, that fine but parents are older than us and they will want their time. We are not saying if or when she might leave her parents if ever. But we are sure they will get tired of her crap. She been spoil everyday of her life and will not give a edge to anyone. Yes she is giving our son a hard time about divorce because she wants everything. Our son was willing to work with her, but she will not. Sometimes we think she has mental problems, but she does not know give and take, all she knows is take, take, and take more. We have not talk to her or her parents about this, in fact we have kept out of the whole thing. We only pray our son gets custody of all three or the girl. She claim we are such poor examples of parents. We do not drink, smoke, or gamble and we are willing to get shots for flu. Her parents well father drinks, smokes, and gamble, or either not willing to get flu shots. Really?? My son has ask us for me to live with him for the custody hearing so he can have the triplets. I am also willing to take parenting classes, I wonder if they will?
We thank you all for reading, just had to get it out there.
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Old 04-16-2018, 11:19 AM
 
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Only advice is for your son to get a good lawyer who specializes in custody issues. Unless she is abusive to them or neglectful to them I doubt she will lose custody, but it will help him to get a fair chance especially if he is willing to move to Florida to be near them.
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Old 07-16-2018, 08:16 AM
 
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Our DIL has been in Florida with the triplets now over 2 1/2 years, never came home. We finally found out last month and our son explain the whole thing to us. :
You only just found out now?????
How come...did your son not consider it of importance???or your knowing of importance???

Those kids are HERS too...it's good that she's enrolled them in schools.
I gather most (if not all) your imfo on the mother and her family is coming from your son?
There are two sides to every story.
The son that kept these children from you for well over two years is now to be trusted?
You would judge these others by what HE says????
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