As this is the great debates forum I trust you will forgive me for the long reply in response to your one liner.
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Originally Posted by MyGoldenLife
What does it matter to you what individuals choose to do with their lives so long as it doesn't hurt YOU?
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What a selfish view of the word and one I am glad I do not share. Sure what if people in countries far away choose to go to war - does not affect me so why care? Why should I care about rape. I am not a woman so statistically it is more unlikely I will ever get raped.
Why care about abortion at all given the chances I will ever be pregnant are minute. No one is likely to hit me either so I should not care about spouse abuse. Oh and I have a good house and a great job so why give a damn about the homeless. I never take hard drugs - so what are addicts to me?
No thanks. Many of us _do_ care about others and if individuals are being exploited and conned and lied to and fooled and more then we should care about A) going after the charlatans doing so and B) doing our best to educate and dissuade those who are wasting their money on it.
The usual counter argument I get (not to put words in _your_ mouth but just generally an argument I get) is that these things often bring comfort to the person exploited. Sure - they tell me - this charlatan is lying to a bereaved widow and taking her money - but that widow is getting comfort from being told the charlatan is contacting her lost husband in the here-after.
But I generally take two dim views of that. The first being that the comfort of some individuals is not a justification from accepting an industry of exploitation and charlatanism. The second is that we _treat_ an infected wound rather than merely cover over the pain with pain killers. Grief too is a wound and it should be treated directly rather than merely papering over the pain with lies and delusion.
It is possible for many to care about the welfare and actions of others - without the pre-requisite that we ourselves be directly impacted by it.
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Originally Posted by tijlover
People might be shocked how secretly it's employed throughout the world, even by Human Resource people finding good candidates for a job.
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To be shocked by a claim I would first have to be shown the claim is true - which is not something you seem to have moved to do here at all. But as with most conspiracy theories - the thing being done "secretly" is conveniently so secret that there is no evidence whatsoever available for it.
However what form you believe the "shock" will take is not clear. The tone of your post suggests that you expect the shock to be of the form "Oh my goodness so many top people are using this - there must be more to it than I thought" rather than what I expect it to be which would be more like "Oh my goodness - top people who are in positions of trust and power and authority are basing their decisions on the mumbo jumbo of pedlars of baseless nonsense".
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
In the few readings I've had done out of curiosity, they only point out general personality tendencies.
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General personality tendencies that most people share - but people are too busy being wowed by how it applies to them so well to stop to realise it applies to every one else too.
Having done a few public talks and debates over the years I have had a few groups to do myself what I had previously only read or heard of other people doing in the past. Which was to stand in front of that audience and test out a few astrology readings.
And I - like the people I saw or read of doing before me - tricked them. I did things like:
1) Get all of one group to stand up and do their reading on their personality and ask them to sit down if the reading was poor. Of course most of them stayed stood up - at which point of course I revealed I had given them a reading from a totally different grouping entirely.
2) Give a reading without revealing which grouping it was for and ask people to stand if they believed it was their grouping. I - as expected - got a pretty equal representation of people standing up from all groupings
I also like the Derren Brown episode where he went around a few countries - all with different languages - and based on a tiny piece of information from volunteers - gave them a "reading" of their personality.
They were astounded by how accurate he "got them". You
can see here how much they were impressed by the readings. One woman was even so shocked by it she did not want anyone else to read it because she felt it was so private and personal to her
Of course the big reveal in the end was that he had given identical readings to every volunteer across the world. How foolish this made them feel after talking at length about how perfectly personal the reading was - is anyone's guess. But that is how everyone who buys into this nonsense _should_ be feeling.