Exactly.
OP's points 1 & 3 essentially mean "refuse--> dump"
I'm a big advocate of re-purposing, but if it's really garbage, little can be done with it.
Old wood not rotten could be re-purposed for small garden projects or burned in a furnace for heat. Drywall pulverized is a good source of calcium/alkali to treat garden soil, as barn lime in stalls or in place of salt for icy sidewalks.
Appliances could be donated or sold to a scrap re-cycler-- steel and the copper in the motors fetch a pretty good price (~$0.15/lb)
Sorry, Robert, for the rude welcome to this forum, but we do tend to think critically around here