MeridithJill :
Of course, no church is perfect-people attend them all

) Most areas do not have so many options as here. Since there are over 100 churches in such a small area to choose from, getting specific suggestions is a blessing! I know there are little gems hidden out there to discover, but there's a lot of months of searching too so we might as well start with ones that meet our needs the most until we find the one that we feel God wants us to serve and learn from.

) It's just not a simple process.
thanks all for the suggestions--I appreciate all of them!
(oh and we attended a church that didn't have church every Sunday night before, but chose awesome outreach programs for most Sunday evenings. We are open to other methods even though we did love it the way it was.)