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Old 05-15-2013, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Table Rock Lake
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Thanks for all your thoughts. I am just going with the flow. I decided if I am in the mood, I will clean up, if not sitting on the deck and reading or taking an afternoon nap is just fine.
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Old 05-15-2013, 05:26 PM
 
Location: Not where I want to be
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Thanks for all your thoughts. I am just going with the flow. I decided if I am in the mood, I will clean up, if not sitting on the deck and reading or taking an afternoon nap is just fine.
I like my naps now, Jude!
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Old 05-17-2013, 08:32 AM
 
Location: Southwest Desert
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Jude...I'm glad you're letting yourself relax more and take naps. (Without feeling guilty.)...I've had to force (or "order") myself to let things "go" at times.. It's hard to handle high levels of stress during the grief-process. Have you noticed this? I sure have!
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Old 05-19-2013, 02:01 PM
 
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Yes I have CA. As of May 31st, I will be relieved of stressing out about the rental home. It closes then. I was over yesterday doing the last of the punch list. The realtor called Friday and said the buyers wanted to have a walk thru this weekend. I panicked at that moment. I was not sure if I was ready. To add to my stress, my son is out of town, and so is my handyman. I have been boarding my son's dog, and taking care of the handyman's cats (they are no problem), but the dog is old and almost blind and a bit deaf and wakes me up early. So today I took the much needed nap. Sometimes I do better when I have a lot to do, and it keeps me from dwelling to much on negative issues. I can honestly say that I feel that Bob has been looking over my shoulder and guiding me thru this.
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Old 05-20-2013, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Southwest Desert
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Jude...I hope everything went good with the "walk-thru" over the weekend. Great that the sale will close soon...I'm sure Bob is watching over you. And you're doing a "great job" on your own too. Congratulations!!
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