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Old 09-19-2013, 09:56 PM
Location: Southwest Desert
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Originally Posted by smilinpretty View Post
CA, sorry you are having to experience this. Yes, I have dealt with the same situation in the past but I don't have it in me to be there for anyone during my grieving, it would wear me down. I had a woman in one of my meet-up groups that wanted me to be her chauffer and I told her out right I just am not available to do that. In my grief, sometimes what comes out of my mouth is without thought and feeling and I am always apologizing but I wasn't expecting anyone to ask me that, just looking for a friend.
CA I don't know about you but during my grieving, I need allot of ME and quiet time...Time Out.

Sending you lots of healing and love ((((CA))))
Sometimes we face brand new situations in life. (And this was the case for me.)....I went through emotional turmoil because I really care about my friend...I didn't want to "kick" him to the "curb."...Over the past week or so I've been upfront and honest with him...I've backed-off and taken time for myself. He's been understanding and supportive...We've learned a lot more about each other and climbed to a "higher plateau" in our friendship...So it all worked out "okay" in the end. And I'm glad! Thanks for the support!
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