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Old 09-11-2015, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Sudcaroland
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Hi Cyn.

Sorry I didn't post earlier, but our stuff has finally arrived so it's been chaotic here, to say the least.
I have thought of you, I know things must be tough because of the anniversary and all the memories it must have triggered. I know you're husband is watching over you and is proud of you.

Big big big big hugs!

 
Old 09-11-2015, 01:15 PM
 
Location: In a house
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Thank you Sudcaro. I have just got to pull up my big girl pants and figure out who I am and where I am heading. I feel very confused right now but I guess that is normal from what I have been told. One day at a time---I'm sure my mind will clear a little at a time. Oh I pray it does!
 
Old 09-11-2015, 04:52 PM
 
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Thank you Sudcaro. I have just got to pull up my big girl pants and figure out who I am and where I am heading. I feel very confused right now but I guess that is normal from what I have been told. One day at a time---I'm sure my mind will clear a little at a time. Oh I pray it does!
Sorry to read of your loss. I don't know if this can be of help, but I remember a friend saying forget the ' one day at a time thing ' but rather, if need be, ' one minute at a time '. That was told to me decades ago and I found that advice helpful.

Also, the same friend said that when there is a divorce the person leaving leaves of their own accord, whereas when there is a death it is different because that person does Not leave you of their own free will. They do Not leave you because they want to leave you. So, I hope you can take comfort in the fact that he did Not want to leave you.

May you also find comfort in the Bible's promise of the resurrection hope. - Isaiah 25:8; Acts 24:15; Rev. 21:4-5
 
Old 09-11-2015, 05:06 PM
 
Location: Somewhere out there
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cyn so very hard to believe it is the one year mark already but it is an important milestone to get past. May not seem like it to you most days but you ARE doing remarkable girlie so keep your chin up and know a lot of prayers are still going up for you.

Sudcaro glad you have your belongings with you now sorry for the missing and broken stuff though.
 
Old 09-12-2015, 05:48 AM
 
Location: In a house
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Good morning everyone! That is what I love about making this one of my first "to do" things in the morning--the encouragement and love here is the best! I don't think anyone can ever get to much of that!
Today is work and I'm on the day shift so for that I am happy! Also still trying to get up a few Christmas items on ebay with the hopes that people are doing some early Christmas shopping. It's harder for me to concentrate on listing lately for some reason but I do get some done! Guess my heart just isn't in it like it was when my DH and I did it together! It was fun then now it's a necessity! Looks like rain later today and a bit of cooling off--that will be nice. Have a blessed day everyone!
 
Old 09-12-2015, 06:41 AM
 
Location: In a house
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Oops...was reading next weeks schedule--I guess I go in at 3pm to 9:30pm. Not my favorite especially if it's raining but I'll just take it slow and safe!
 
Old 09-13-2015, 05:26 AM
 
Location: In a house
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Good morning! Didn't get home from work until 10:30PM---long day! I am beat but I'll still get to church. I'm happy I only work nights every other week! I really don't like driving home in the dark! Guess I'm just not use to it. It was slow so the hours went by slow. I tried to stay busy even washing the floors. But I am thankful I have that job! Have a blessed day everyone!
 
Old 09-13-2015, 09:34 AM
 
Location: In a house
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Couldn't make it to Sunday school--just to tired and my body hurts but did enjoy the church worship this morning. I think the mopping of the store--it is huge--did me in a little and then not enough sleep. I'm fighting off that cold or flu or whatever my co-worker has so will probably take a nap today to hopefully help with my resistance.
It is a perfectly beautiful day here weather wise.....Perfect temps, slight cool crisp breeze and big white fluffy clouds with a blue blue sky behind them. My neighbor across the valley has offered to use his professional huge lawn mower to mow my lawn next week..I'll still do the dogs yard just because I am very careful with them. How blessed I am...
 
Old 09-14-2015, 10:37 AM
 
Location: In a house
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Today is my daughters, Amber's, birthday! Boy do I miss her!
 
Old 09-14-2015, 03:44 PM
 
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Ahhhhh please tell her I said Happy Birthday
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