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Old 08-14-2017, 06:01 PM
 
Location: Niagara county
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Thank so much for the info. From I understand the cousin is the executor

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Old 08-14-2017, 06:52 PM
 
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Thank so much for the info. From I understand the cousin is the executor
Get confirmation of this and proceed accordingly. Get professionals involved as soon as you can. They can figure all this out and do what is best for the mom and the estate.
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Old 08-14-2017, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Denver CO
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Thank so much for the info. From I understand the cousin is the executor
There is no executor without a will, the court would have to appoint someone, and they would not skip over an immediate family member in favor of a cousin. Plus it's not something that happens immediately.

It really is the right thing to do to report this to the elder abuse agency in your area so they can look into things.
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Old 08-14-2017, 09:02 PM
 
Location: Midland, MI
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That is why anyone reading this should make sure to create a will. My partner's brother died without a will which made matters much harder. I'm sure we are doing things he didn't want, but that is what the will is for.
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Old 08-15-2017, 06:18 PM
 
Location: Niagara county
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Confused here as far as I know there was no will. The mother is alive and there are no children.
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Old 08-15-2017, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Niagara county
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He had two vehicles a 2016 low mileage corvette and a 2015 GMC pickup. I'm ill watching these people come and go taking things out of his house. He really disliked the people who are sleeping in house now. Sad!!!
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Old 08-15-2017, 09:59 PM
 
Location: Denver CO
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Confused here as far as I know there was no will. The mother is alive and there are no children.
It sounds like the cousin strong armed himself into the house and is taking advantage of your neighbor's mother. If no one stops him, he will steal all of the estate's assets and she will be left with nothing.
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Old 08-16-2017, 05:31 PM
 
Location: Niagara county
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It sounds like the cousin strong armed himself into the house and is taking advantage of your neighbor's mother. If no one stops him, he will steal all of the estate's assets and she will be left with nothing.
Their on the way stealing or taking items. I've given up the way ch or fight on this
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Old 08-16-2017, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Tampa, FL
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I would MYOB
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Old 08-17-2017, 12:24 PM
 
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I think that if there is the concern that there is elder abuse, it is our duty and responsibility to report that to the appropriate agency. Then they can investigate and do as they see fit. Beyond that, it is not a neighbor's place to interfere. But to suspect abuse and to do nothing is to be complicit.
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