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Old 01-05-2009, 07:12 PM
 
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Deb..without a doubt...the loss of a parent is crushing. But remember your Mom is with you always, watching your every move...Make her proud Deb. It's a hard road, but it get's better a tiny bit each day.
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Old 01-13-2009, 11:41 AM
 
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Hi deb8997

I am glad you have gotten better and healthier. Your mom would want "you" be in control of your life, not the drinking.
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Old 01-28-2009, 07:47 AM
 
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i lost my mum on jan 30 2008,58 yrs old too young to die,yes i watched her take her last breath,its nearly 1 yr now and im finding it harder now than i did when she died,i cant put it into words she was my world,im lost without her,i feel abonded,sometimes i just dont want to breath without her,im on d dreaded anti depressants and they do help but im havin more bad days than good,people say its gets better im sorry but i personaly dont agree,please if anyone is reading please help as alot of ppl dont understand what im going through unless u have been there urselves.....tanx
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Old 02-07-2009, 04:18 AM
 
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Hi gugie,

I hope the 1 year anniversary was not to tough on you. One day you will wake up and say mum would not want her death to take up all my thoughts and you will be able to a load off your shoulders. It may take a while, but I hope that day comes soon for you.
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Old 02-07-2009, 07:12 AM
 
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My sympathy to any and all who have lost a parent.
I hope Peggy provides the children with comfort and that when they are older they will remember why Peggy started her journey. That they will have joyful laughter when they talk of her travels and remember the reason she was sent for the lady that the family loved very much.

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Old 02-09-2009, 06:27 PM
 
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Default I lost my dad today

I lost my father today to cancer and he was only diagnosed six weeks ago. Our whole family is so sad. I feel so guilty that he was so nice and gave me everything I wanted as a child and sacraficed his life for me. He was so much nicer than I am. He was only 67....I feel like I deserved cancer more than he did. I feel like he will be back home next week My mom misses him as well.
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Old 08-18-2009, 11:39 PM
 
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I am 21 and just lost my dad to leukemia. I am finding it very difficult to deal with his death because I wish I spent more time with him in his last days (it was a long illness). I also wish I appreciated him more when he was alive since he was an incredible man beloved by many. I realized after he died how much I really love him and need him. I feel sad that he won't be able to go to my wedding or see my children either.
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Old 08-19-2009, 12:12 AM
 
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Esumme3 - My mom died in January 2009. She was sick for about 5 years before she died. I think when we lose someone we love very much - we all feel like we didn't do enough/spend enough time with them etc. I am sure that your dad knew how much you loved him. He would want you to have a happy life.
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