Relationships-Misunderstanding The Spoken And Unspoken

Well man, if you're going to be with her, you have to stop thinking things like "for some reason, you love her". you should also stop feeling that you are "very attracted to her even thought you would prefer thinner women". If you can't stop thinking/feeling that way, you should probably break up with her. The problem is, women are sensitive and have very good instincts. If you don't actually feel like she is your absolute favorite girl, second to no other....then she'll know it and will never get comfortable with you. She certainly won't put on any langerie. Why should she? you're openly admitting you don't understand why you think she's hot...so she would be stupid to slip into something slinky and, perhaps, help you change your mind about liking her at all. Read this blog entry:

afriendofthecourt.blogspot.com/2012/02/why-women-really-hate-newt.html

on the surface it's about politics, but if you look deeper (especially at the end) you'll get a feel for how a woman really wants her man to feel about her. She has to be your first choice, otherwise...you're wasting her time. hope that helps. let me know how it goes. good luck!

My girlfriend and I have a very understanding and secure relationship. We have been very close for a year now and I can't read her, or react to the forthcoming common situation men hate to be in." Don't buy me langerie because I am not confident with my weight gain."Another example, " I don't like to be dating a boyfriend who weighs less than me." I have lost a lot of weight recently. This situation is like tabboo for guys and guys always want to know how to read this spoken and unspoken communication. For some reason, I love her and am very attracted to her even though I would prefer thinner women, but realize nobody's perfect. I have always dodged the situation by saying that she is my "Beautiful." I welcome any comments on this and comments about other spoken and unspoken language.

I consider myself to be a trusting, truthful, principled, and experienced young man. My girlfriend of one year now bought me dinner this time and was mean to me without complaining to me anything wrong that was done. I was a thoughtful gentleman, as always and got a bad gut feeling. She said she would call me later and then let me follow her towards my home without calling me or looking at me on the road. I have not mastered the road system yet, still new to Orlando, Florida. She did have a bad day at work, She did call me later, but I held out showing occasional backbone and because I am hurt.