Divorce Support Group

I am one year out of my divorce. My marriage was with someone who was bi-polar/depressed/controlling and very emotionally abusive who left me because I expected him to be responsible. I am settled with being single, but becoming lonely.
I have a wonderful friend who I think wants to be more than friends. He is older than I am, divorced recently, and normally shy. For about 2 years we talk, email, send gifts and occasionally go out together, once was a weekend trip that he refused to let me pay my way for. He has made all of the advances in our physical relationship, but we have not had sex yet. We work for the same company, but at different locations, and he is open with his feelings in front of co-workers. I think I'm really falling for this friend, but am afraid of being hurt again, so I hold my feelings back. When does the fear subside? How should I approach talking about my relationship with this friend with him without pushing him away or scaring him?

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i will be divoriced in a month.I am having a hard time accepting this. I have been married for 23 years. My husband wants to be free and I am very sad. Please give me some help.

So the fun begins anyone suggest a good attorney?

hey everyone. divorce,that word sucks!I'm 4 years out of my divorce and still havent been able to bring myself back around to dating again. i loved her with all my heart and we were great together,so i thought,obviously not or we would still be together.The funny thing is that we are now good friends and we have put the past behind us and i still cant get myself into the frame of mind to date again,guess i've been ruined.

Hey! I am a mother of 4 children. I had 2 of my kids with my first husband. I was very happy to get away from him! Now my new husband has been having an affair and i am on the fence about another divorce. I have his kids only out of state with me and he will not leave the other women. Its like she has a hold of him! I dont really want a divorce but can only 1 person save a marriage?

As mom to 18 & 21 year olds, divorced after 29 years, I can offer much support and practical information to help cope during a difficult time. But that was not always the case. I finished college and worked for major airline during our first decade of marriage. Later 1995 found me a stay-at-home mom with 3 & 6 year olds and a husband having an affair with a woman in our church. After subsequently patching our marriage, 2001 found me with 10 & 14 year olds and an angry husband abandoning all 3 of us. Today, 2009, finds me divorced 6 years, a 21 year old happily in college, an 18 year old excitedly headed off to the Marines (which scares me to death), remarried 9 months (it is possible to love again), and my own business as a divorce counselor, www.DivorceWisdom.com, helping those overwhelmed by divorce. There is so much information the attorneys and therapists did not know or offer me to cope: Healthy ways of dealing with depression, fear, and insomnia...The limitations of restraining orders, living anonymously & how to provide safety from his stalking...Creating new financial privacy...What information you need not be revealed in a court ordered subpoena? Talking to and helping my children heal...Just to mention a few. Divorce is a difficult season but information is available to prevent it from destroying your life.
Samantha Woods
www.divorcewisdom.com

I am currently experiencing great emotional stress. I do not have the strength or heart to let go. My husband is having an affair and he has started a pattern of staying out over night. I just need someone to talk with so that I will remain sane. I am planning to file for divorce after I obtain proof of the affair. I have already spoken to an attorney regarding my situation

Hi My name is Cathi, I am always thinking about divorce. I have allowed him to pick on me and many other issues that I hope someone has input about

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