Well, it depends on how much money you have. I live in Va. Beach and don't have specific knowledge of Norfolk's schools, but I can give you general ideas of safe places to live: Parts of downtown, Ghent, Larchmont, and Wards Corner.
There are some very, very sketchy places in Norfolk. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. But there are also some really nice places, if you can afford it -- about $250,000 to $300,000. I wish I could tell you more about the schools.
I'd say that if you can find a place to live in one of those neighborhoods, it's safe and there's lots to do anywhere in Hampton Roads. The annoying thing is the tunnels -- the worst thing you could do is try to commute across a tunnel unless you're on swing or night shift.
Good luck!
