What price range are you considering ? You didn't mention school quality ? Closest & most reasonably priced Hampton, many great neighborhoods within a 10-15 minute drive from Langley. Slightly further away is York County. Between 10-25 minutes depending on where in York County. Further still is Williamsburg/ James City County. 25-45 minutes depending on which part of Williamsburg you are coming from. You can compare schools on
www.SchoolMatters.com I know you don't have kids yet but it definitely is something you want to look at. If you compare you will typically see that York County excels in school rankings. Williamsburg would rank second, Hampton behind Williamsburg. Look at the specific schools within each area and try to narrow your search that way. Each area has it's own personality. It's hard to convey the exact felling of each. We are partial to Williamsburg. It offers a certain small town feel, while still offering much to do for young and old.
Most don't want to brave the commute from Norfolk/ VA Beach to Hampton. You have to cross the Hampton Roads Bridge Tunnel. If there is any incident on it or interstate 64 leading to it, you're dead.
Let us know your price range and we will make suggestions !