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Old 04-05-2011, 04:17 PM
 
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Being an Asian-American from California, this is a subject that my friends and I have talked about - friends from both California and Hawaii. One can't help but notice that walking through the beaches of San Diego or Los Angeles, there are plenty of beautiful Asian women about. And most of them seem to prefer to date, and eventually marry, white men. In some ways, it's like "living the American Dream."

In Hawaii, however, although there are a share of Asian women who like white men, the majority seem to prefer to date other Asians. Also, it seems much more common to see young Asian Americans guys with girls of any race, white or Asian, in Hawaii than it does in California. Is this just an illusion, or would other people seem to agree?

Success in dating is determined by many other factors, obviously - confidence, personality, looks, ect., but in this instance, one can't help but notice this diffence. Anybody else take notice of this or have thoughts on this matter?
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Old 04-05-2011, 05:59 PM
 
Location: TMI
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Being an Asian-American from California, this is a subject that my friends and I have talked about - friends from both California and Hawaii. One can't help but notice that walking through the beaches of San Diego or Los Angeles, there are plenty of beautiful Asian women about. And most of them seem to prefer to date, and eventually marry, white men. In some ways, it's like "living the American Dream."

In Hawaii, however, although there are a share of Asian women who like white men, the majority seem to prefer to date other Asians. Also, it seems much more common to see young Asian Americans guys with girls of any race, white or Asian, in Hawaii than it does in California. Is this just an illusion, or would other people seem to agree?

Success in dating is determined by many other factors, obviously - confidence, personality, looks, ect., but in this instance, one can't help but notice this diffence. Anybody else take notice of this or have thoughts on this matter?
Who cares who they date/marry? Me thinks someone is bitter because he needs to put some effort in getting laid. The relationship forum will be happy to assist you.
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Old 04-05-2011, 06:58 PM
 
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I have to ask if white, blonde women have any luck dating in Hawaii. I am from Florida where we are a dime a dozen, but I am due to relocate to Hawaii. Any thoughts?
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Old 04-05-2011, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Southwest France
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Being an Asian-American from California, this is a subject that my friends and I have talked about - friends from both California and Hawaii. One can't help but notice that walking through the beaches of San Diego or Los Angeles, there are plenty of beautiful Asian women about. And most of them seem to prefer to date, and eventually marry, white men. In some ways, it's like "living the American Dream."

In Hawaii, however, although there are a share of Asian women who like white men, the majority seem to prefer to date other Asians. Also, it seems much more common to see young Asian Americans guys with girls of any race, white or Asian, in Hawaii than it does in California. Is this just an illusion, or would other people seem to agree?

Success in dating is determined by many other factors, obviously - confidence, personality, looks, ect., but in this instance, one can't help but notice this diffence. Anybody else take notice of this or have thoughts on this matter?
I think you are right, from my very casual and unscientific view. I think there is such a variety of asians and pacific islanders that the dating pool is wide open. Speaking with some Japanese friends (nisei) seems like Japanese prefer to date other Japanese, but other asians seem more open to dating others. YMMV.
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Old 04-05-2011, 09:44 PM
 
Location: Volcano
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I have to ask if white, blonde women have any luck dating in Hawaii. I am from Florida where we are a dime a dozen, but I am due to relocate to Hawaii. Any thoughts?
Sorry, we have so many on hand already that most of the incoming are being diverted to San Diego.

But you know, I have a lot of compassion for your kind, and I try to help out whenever I can. So I run a little shelter program up here in the artists colony at Volcano, on the Big I... with intake sessions at the Lava Lounge over in the National Park, live music on weekends... let me know when you'd like me to meet you there to review your case.
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Old 04-06-2011, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Honolulu
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Yes.
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Old 04-18-2011, 05:25 PM
 
Location: USA
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I have to ask if white, blonde women have any luck dating in Hawaii. I am from Florida where we are a dime a dozen, but I am due to relocate to Hawaii. Any thoughts?
You have problems dting in Florida? Well, any woman can be blonde, including Asian woman. Blonde Asian chick, blue eyes and dark tan would be perfect.
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Old 03-27-2012, 10:13 PM
 
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Being an Asian-American from California, this is a subject that my friends and I have talked about - friends from both California and Hawaii. One can't help but notice that walking through the beaches of San Diego or Los Angeles, there are plenty of beautiful Asian women about. And most of them seem to prefer to date, and eventually marry, white men. In some ways, it's like "living the American Dream."

In Hawaii, however, although there are a share of Asian women who like white men, the majority seem to prefer to date other Asians. Also, it seems much more common to see young Asian Americans guys with girls of any race, white or Asian, in Hawaii than it does in California. Is this just an illusion, or would other people seem to agree?

Success in dating is determined by many other factors, obviously - confidence, personality, looks, ect., but in this instance, one can't help but notice this diffence. Anybody else take notice of this or have thoughts on this matter?


I think so. Most locals have mixed heritage and likely they have some kind of Asian in them. I know of so many couples of different races, and not your typical Asian woman-White man configuration.

What you saw is not an illusion. It's the way it is!
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Old 03-27-2012, 10:15 PM
 
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Who cares who they date/marry? Me thinks someone is bitter because he needs to put some effort in getting laid. The relationship forum will be happy to assist you.

Try answering the question without having to psychoanalyze and label the OP. You're the one that sounds bitter!
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Old 03-28-2012, 05:28 AM
 
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Dating life is always better in part of the world
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