Find "my School" on the Big Island:
Find mySchool on the Big Island
For the Honokaa complex:
School Complex database
To get contact information for Hawaii private schools, visit:
Hawaii Association of Independent Schools [HAIS]
The links above will get you started on locating the schools in various areas on the Big Island.
My recommendation, if you have not spent time in Pahoa, is to visit the area for a while and explore the community and the local schools in person. Talk with school administrators in both areas about standards-based education and ask what their NCLB "status" is. For in depth reports, go to:
ARCH || School Accountability || No Child Left Behind (NCLB) and find the school you are researching in the report you can read by clicking on
AYP Determinations and School Sanction Status, by Complex
As far as how you will be received as a gay couple, in my experience, Hawaii is a very diverse place with an openness to many different perspectives on religion, sexual orientation and gender identity issues. As such a melting pot of cultural traditions, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference, etc, I have always regarded Hawaii as one of the most tolerant places I have lived. Others may weigh in with different opinions...but I would think that you will find most communities very open to your family.
(Tip for exploring Waimea real estate: the buzz word for the wet-side of Waimea is "green-side"...as opposed to "Waimea dry-side".)