Bread is at least $6.00 a loaf unless you want to eat the crappy white bread that has no nutrition and less "umph" to it.
Milk is $4 to $6 a gallon
Electricity is around .41 to .45 a kwh PLUS several "surcharges". We have a large family (9 people). No AC, (I live at about 800' so no need for AC but I work at sea level and we have to have AC in order to work. Partly the humidity, partly the temperature) no need for heat at my house although after being here 5 years I get cold if it's less than 75 degrees. So, we have a water heater, lights, 1 computer, 2 or 3 TVs that might be on. Several adults who work various hours so there is something going on here practically 20 hours a day. Ceiling fans and such. We hang out our clothes when at all possible. Our electric bill hovers around $600 a month. Almost all our light bulbs are the florescent ones. No fancy outdoor lighting. Now, to compare a smaller family's use, I have tenants---say a couple in a 2/1 apartment also with no AC. They are gone to work all day so nothing's on but the fridge. Their bills are about $200/month.
Gas right now is about $2.40/gallon at CostCo.
I spent a few days in California about a year ago and went shopping with an old friend. We had lunch at Ruby's it was $12.00. I bought an armload of stuff at Target and the total was about $42.00. I thought, "did she get everything?" I had to laugh, saying "you know you live in Hawaii when California prices look cheap!"
However, almost everywhere I go each day I look out at that big beautiful jewel of blue. The worst day can be cured by sitting by the sea for an hour or two. Priceless treasures abound every place you look; flowers, the sky, shells, whales breaching, little starfish scurrying under a rock, having a giant sea turtle swim past you as you snorkel, looking up at a snow covered Mauna Kea or Mauna Loa while you drive around in short sleeves and a pair of cutoffs. Shoe budget? $40 Reefs that last at least a year

. (I had to actually buy some shoes to go to the mainland, and some socks)
Truly there are trade offs no matter where one lives. The question is "What do you want, how much does it cost, and can you live with your decision to have it?"