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Originally Posted by jennyinhi
I am kind of confused, I read many of your other posts and I am wondering why you call yourself Waianaegirl? It seems like you hate Hawaii and post negative things about it every chance you get? Did you have that bad of an experience here in Waianae/Oahu? I too am white, I have never had an issue here because of it. But, I believe the vibe you give off is the vibe you receive, so maybe that's why you had a hard time fitting in. But, that can happen anywhere not just in Hawaii. From the couple of posts I read you haven't lived here since you were twelve and I am assuming you're an adult now? How would you know whether Sea country is a good community or not (considering most of it was built between 2005-2008)? I believe the original post was asking whether sea country was a nice community. Which I know it is from experience. I think you missed out on a great learning experience here in Waianae when you were a kid. This place is full of real Hawaiian culture, not watered down culture fed to the tourists. It is not the mainland US and I knew that when we moved here, I learn something new almost everyday. I have made some great friends here and truly feel like this is home. I am sorry if I come off being mean, but I really take pride in this community and I volunteer for a lot here, so I see a lot of positive here too. Maybe next time you come to Waianae, you could come to Sea country and see that Waianae is not all "slums". 
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I lived in Waianae for 6 years,and Makaha for 2. I'm sorry, but I strongly disagree with what you are saying about, if you give off a vibe, you will get it in return. So you are saying that a 5 year old deserves to be treated badly, because that 5 year old is giving off that vibe first? No, I don't think so. I moved there (waianae) when I was 5 and moved out of there when I was 12, to Makaha, then moved to the mainland. Yes, I am an adult now, but all the bad memories of growing up there has obviously stayed with me. We go back every year. We no longer have family living there, but we do have friends, that I grew up with that are still there. So it's not like I haven't been back in years and have no clue what I'm talking about. You see the same town one way, and I another. That is just they way it is. Just because you see only the good and beautiful, doesn't mean there is no bad and the ugly. Even with all that said, I still didn't want to move (from Hawaii)because that was all I knew. Life didn't get any better when we moved to Denver. I didn't fit in there either. I was tan in the middle of winter, and because I lived in Hawaii, the kids assumed that I HAD to be rich, therefore I HAD to be stuck up. So they treated me like crap too. I miss alot of things about Hawaii, but don't miss alot about it either. I like visiting, but would never live there again. AND I am not the only person to say "negetive" things about Hawaii. But I'm glad that you love it and are doing so well
