I know a lot of people move to Honolulu for a lot of reasons, most ocean-related & paradise perception reasons
I'm actually one of those REALLY interested in the mix of Asian cultures in particular - Japanese & Filipino & Chinese in particular.
I am wondering how worth it Honolulu would be as a place to live because of it. (Incidently, I'm married to one of those ethnicities, currently live in Japan, and been living in Asia for close to 10 years, and I'm a haole).
Anyways, I've visited Honolulu a few times, and LOVE it. Even rented an apartment on Nuuana Avenue for awhile to get a feel for things and used the bus to downtown and Ala Moana everyday

Love being on a bus and seeing the large mix of ethnic identities - with strong Asian feel.
Have you who live in Oahu & the Islands seem people like me 'make a go' of Honolulu...and would a person like me end up in Southern California in the long run anyways...or back to Asia...or what generally happens to those kinds
I think I have the right ingredients...but the only downside is I do have that mainland thinking that being a home-owner is something I'd like to someday achieved - never owned a home before though. I think that would translate into condo owner in HNL. However, the maintenance fee is pretty insane, that renting for life seems like the only real practical option. So I might be one of those types that also get driven away by that, despite strong interest in everything else about living in HNL.