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Old 05-04-2012, 07:11 PM
 
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So I got soft during sex one night and I have lost my self confidence when having sex so I think about it while having sex and I lose my erection. I have not had this problem before. I just wanna know if anyone has any advice on how I can forget about the pressure so I can keep hard. It's very embarrassing for me but I wanna just be like I was and didn't have a problem before
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Old 05-04-2012, 10:33 PM
 
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So I got soft during sex one night and I have lost my self confidence when having sex so I think about it while having sex and I lose my erection. I have not had this problem before. I just wanna know if anyone has any advice on how I can forget about the pressure so I can keep hard. It's very embarrassing for me but I wanna just be like I was and didn't have a problem before


Keep postponing intercourse until you are climbing the walls. Make it the hottest,horniest most orgasmic time she has ever had. No touching your penis by either one of you. Then nail her to the sheets-
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Old 05-04-2012, 10:54 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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Talk to a doctor about it. I'd think some Viagra would help until you get your confidence back. Doctors often have "sample packs" you can try, and that's probably all you'd need.

Also, I don't know if this is pertinent to your experiences or not, but avoid drinking too much, avoid trying when you're exhausted, take your time.
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Old 05-04-2012, 10:57 PM
 
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don't feel pressured? Sex should be fun and enjoyed by both individuals.
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Old 05-04-2012, 11:03 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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I'd say tell your gf about it...if she's understanding, she won't rush you into it, and let you take your time. If you're constantly worried about being embarrassed it can kill the mood.
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Old 05-05-2012, 01:24 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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hahahhaah that happened to me once a while ago and you're right it does suck big time, but ya just gotta laugh it off. Before you go again, just have maybe two beers to relax yourself and after that you won't have that problem ever again.
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Old 05-05-2012, 02:43 AM
 
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Doing a Google search under Sexual Performance anxiety might give some answers or at least some more understanding of the matter.
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Old 05-07-2012, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Eastern NC
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One thing to remember is that if you are dehydrated, you will not only have a hard time keeping an erection but could also getting one. Make sure you drink plenty of water 15 to 30 minutes before sex.
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