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Old 03-16-2015, 02:04 PM
 
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I respectfully disagree as I just saw three different Dr's and had the same problems with all three. Sometimes it's just a matter of them not getting my american-ish attempt at making small talk or maybe they don't get my humor...it could be something simple. I'm paying them good money to render me a service, I shouldn't have to deal with anything awkward.
You're there to see a doctor and have something diagnosed - you're not there to entertain or "make small talk". As a hospital employee who deals with staffing issues, I can assure you that the providers aren't the ones who are awkward. It's you. So stop the comedy and just tell the doctor what's wrong with you.
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Old 03-20-2015, 10:12 PM
 
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Ask for a doctor whose native language is English.

Caucasian doesn't mean they were brought up speaking English
Agreed. Too; to be picky, most Middle East people ARE "white" or Caucasian as are many "Hispanic" people.
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Old 03-21-2015, 01:31 PM
 
Location: Out there somewhere...a traveling man.
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You have the right to choose whomever you want as a doctor, just be diplomatic about it.
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Old 03-21-2015, 01:37 PM
 
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First I'd like to start off by saying I am in no way racist or discriminatory. I have seen many doctors lately; middle eastern Dr's, korean Dr's and chinese Dr's and while they all have spoken decsent english there has definitely been a communication / cultural barrier that has made it a bit difficult to explain and understand certain details. I take my health and understanding all details very serious. I would like to make calls looking for new doctors but since most people answering the phones aren't necessarairly caucasian how do I ask for a caucasian doctor without sounding offensive or discriminatory in nature? Do I just ask to see the Dr with the most americanized name? Sorry, I really hope I don't offend anyone.
Yes you will be seen as a racist. Speaking proper English does not mean you are caucasian.
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Old 03-21-2015, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Sydney, Australia
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So you would rather have a German doctor with a heavy accent over a Somalian one with a clear English/American accent?

You see, race doesn't matter here. Just tell them that you want a doctor who can speak good English, regardless of their race.
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Old 03-22-2015, 08:50 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Yes, you sound like a total bigot... Nobody is "comfortable" seeing a doctor for health concerns. Instead of judging others by their accent or color, maybe you should focus on improving your own ability to communicate and convey things more clearly.
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Old 03-22-2015, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Missouri
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Ask for a doctor whose native language is English.

Caucasian doesn't mean they were brought up speaking English
This! Yes I would think that asking for a Caucasian doctor would sound very racist, and wouldn't necessarily get you a doctor that speaks English well, anyway.
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Old 03-22-2015, 09:47 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Just about every doctor has their picture on the internet nowadays, you can see what they look like before you call and make an appointment.

If you insist on a white doctor, just phone and make an appointment with the one you want.

Don't tell them the reason why you chose them, it might make you look ignorant.
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Old 03-22-2015, 07:52 PM
 
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First I'd like to start off by saying I am in no way racist or discriminatory. I have seen many doctors lately; middle eastern Dr's, korean Dr's and chinese Dr's and while they all have spoken decsent english there has definitely been a communication / cultural barrier that has made it a bit difficult to explain and understand certain details. I take my health and understanding all details very serious. I would like to make calls looking for new doctors but since most people answering the phones aren't necessarairly caucasian how do I ask for a caucasian doctor without sounding offensive or discriminatory in nature? Do I just ask to see the Dr with the most americanized name? Sorry, I really hope I don't offend anyone.

There's nothing wrong with wanting a doctor who looks like you and shares the same genes. It's only natural that you'll feel comfortable around your own people. The best way is to do research online. A lot of doctors offices have website with a bio and picture for each doctor.
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Old 03-23-2015, 07:34 AM
 
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Yes you will be seen as a racist. Speaking proper English does not mean you are caucasian.
Being racist is legal.

In this case the poster is NOT being racist........just trying to be pro-active in their healthcare.

OP........ask for what makes you comfortable.......it is YOUR health.
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