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Old 05-05-2016, 08:27 PM
 
Location: FLG/PHX/MKE
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advice on If its possible to overcome this insecurity? It really has bothered me and made me feel inferior for many years.
Yeah I have advice. Circumcision isn't common in most (other) western countries. You're normal, and any woman who rejects you because of your normal penis, is a woman you can do without. It's actually kind of sad that this is even a thread.
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Old 05-05-2016, 09:02 PM
 
Location: FLG/PHX/MKE
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An uncircumcised penis is more difficult to clean beneath the foreskin.
And brushing your teeth is harder with a closed mouth. How do people manage such difficulty?
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Old 05-05-2016, 10:02 PM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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there is no reason to be cut. God intended the male part to have foreskin on it, it isnt up to us to cut it off.

I have 3 sons, they are not circ' and live happy fulfilling lives and all have g/f's, wifes....

dont worry about it. there is nothing wrong or disgusting about being uncut.
There are some who prefer an intact male!
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Old 05-05-2016, 10:03 PM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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yeah i have advice. Circumcision isn't common in most (other) western countries. You're normal, and any woman who rejects you because of your normal penis, is a woman you can do without. It's actually kind of sad that this is even a thread.
+1!!!
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Old 05-05-2016, 11:14 PM
 
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You don't need to get cut. You just need to meet the right type of people. Most women, by the way, don't know the difference, and don't want to know. When you're married sex is usually under the covers with the lights out. The scene is not like a porno flick.


Then, there's the other thing: if you ever turn homo, you'll have first choice of a partner. Gays are now into uncuts - doesn't even matter how big it is. Uncut rocks with that bunch these days.


Just remember - take it off, you can't put it back on. If it contributes to your pleasure (they often do) you better consider that. It's your penis - not someone else's. Remember that.
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Old 05-05-2016, 11:18 PM
 
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And brushing your teeth is harder with a closed mouth. How do people manage such difficulty?


Vulvas are even MORE difficult to clean. So should gals get that part trimmed off? What about toenails? Nasty things. Should we rip those off too? Maybe everybody should have an AP resection, shortly after birth and wear a colostomy bag. That would get rid of a really dirty part.


By the way, I often close my mouth while I brush my teeth to keep the toothpaste in my mouth.
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Old 05-06-2016, 12:08 AM
 
Location: Beautiful Upstate NY!
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If it makes you feel better, go ahead and do it...but know that it is a painful experience in adulthood. Not that it was not painful as an infant...but we just don't remember it.

Most of the people suggesting to keep the foreskin in here are female. They have not experienced the ridicule of junior high school locker rooms, where one is completely made fun of for having an anteater hanging between his legs.

Thank you, mom and dad, for choosing to circumcise me when I was an infant.
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Old 05-06-2016, 02:57 AM
 
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I'm surprised by how many people have responded. I really appreciate all the advice.

After reading all the accepting comments, I actually am starting to feel better about it. I wasn't aware there were so many people here that were ok with, when I was growing up it wouldn't of seemed like it.

I laughed at the comment about converting to islam, I hadn't thought of that before ha.

As far as sex goes, I'm not a virgin, I've had three sexual partners but I always made it a point to always keep the skin retracted so they wouldn't notice, but of course you can imagine it's not a good thing to be self concious.

I asked a girl I was with ( she thinks i'm circumcised) If she could ever be with someone that wasn't and she said no because she thought it was dirty and wouldn't feel good. I had to laugh on the inside, but didn't say anything.

So really it was just all the negative things I heard from a young age, that made me feel insecure. I never trusted anyone enough to speak about it so that probably added to it.

Thank you again for all the responses. I really do appreciate them.
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Old 05-06-2016, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn New York
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An uncircumcised penis is more difficult to clean beneath the foreskin.

Your kidding me?, right?

You have to be a girl- how would you know??????


this has the be the dumbest statement ever !!

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Old 05-06-2016, 08:49 AM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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Most women, by the way, don't know the difference, and don't want to know. When you're married sex is usually under the covers with the lights out. The scene is not like a porno flick.

Really? The hubby and I have been doing it wrong all these years?

I don't think married sex is like that for most couples. A lot of my friends will have fairly frank discussions about married sex, and I only know one girl whose husband won't let her see him naked...she's touched him of course but never seen him naked with the lights on. And they have four kids. But that's definitely the odd one out, most of the married couples I know get freakier as the years go on.
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