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Old 06-09-2016, 03:16 PM
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At a urinal that is...

I have a pee-shy problem but I don't have it all the time. At public places ironically I'm fine. Any time I'm drinking, I'm fine.

But when I'm at work, sometimes I have trouble. If somebody comes up next to me and starts talking to me, sometimes it won't come out.

What I do then is wait for the other person to leave and then go, or zip up, wash up and pretend I went.

I don't really care, but it is a little embarrassing, and I was just wondering if other guys even notice at all.

Sometimes I tinkle so lightly that it's almost inaudible anyway, lol.

I've never noticed if another guy goes or not, but then again, I try to avoid standing next to another guy for any longer than I have to. I won't talk someone up because maybe they have the same problem, lol.

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Old 06-09-2016, 10:12 PM
Location: Out there somewhere...
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Trouble peeing, go into the pvt stall.
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Old 06-10-2016, 04:04 AM
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Someone actually talked to you while you were peeing? I've only seen guys who were drunk in Las Vegas do that.
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Old 06-10-2016, 09:57 PM
Location: Brawndo-Thirst-Mutilator-Nation
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I hate the roasting-urine troughs and men are the creepiest creeps out there.......I go into a stall if at all possible.
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Old 06-11-2016, 06:54 PM
Location: Woodstock, GA
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No, I never notice if the guy next to me doesn't pee. But I do notice when he doesn't wash his hands afterwards.
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Old 06-12-2016, 08:46 AM
Location: Not.here
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Sounds like a case of the nerves OP. When the mind signals the "downstairs" to pee, the muscles that work that area (bladder and adjoining area) must be completely relaxed so that the flow will take place. If they are not relaxed the opposite will happen and the flow will be held in. I doubt anyone is taking notice of what you do as a way to deal with your issue. Do what works for you.
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