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I have gotten turned on by them before, but it took a lot more stimulation and I didn't last as long. For example, I could take up to 45 minutes of foreplay, to get turned on, and only last an hour or so, but with viagra, I can take up to two minutes of foreplay, and last hours.
So I would like to be able to have that kind of energy without it, if possible.
Thats longer than a lot of men can last.
you mean it takes 45 minutes for the woman to stimulate you to get it up?
This must be a male-only conversation but this female will pipe in here briefly to say that if you subjected me to what you call 'only an hour' of actual intercourse I would probably be sore and exhausted as heck and possibly screaming for you to stop. Please tone that down a bit. I would much rather deal with the ego issues of a man with ED once in a while than one who indulges in the blue pill when all he can manage is a WHOLE HOUR of you know what.
stevie60 - can't rep you again right now .. but thanks .. your comment was hilarious - and perhaps a little exaggerated but I bet most women of your age are probably not bothered by that at all .. we like foreplay a lot usually.
I wish I had this kind of problem. If you can only get it up for aggressive women then tell her how she needs to act. And then write her a script. Write down what you need to hear and tape it to your forehead. I have actually done that before and she laughed so hard it was also a turn on.
This. What turns you on is what turns you on. There's no point in wishing you were turned on by things you're not.
There is what you think you should find arousing, and what you DO find arousing. Fighting that never worked well for anybody.
What you are dubbing "erectile dysfunction" is commonly known as "having preferences."
The reason why I am working against my penis's preference, is because my penis is being super shallow about it. That's like rejecting a woman, just because she doesn't have large breasts, when every other quality is good. I am not that shallow, but yet people are telling me I should be just because my penis is that shallow.
You know how in the woman movie Shallow Hal, the one character rejects a woman cause her second toe, is bigger, than her big toe? That's what I feel like, when people tell me to go for what the penis wants, even if it's a shallow quality.
Also, the doctor told me that the viagra will not work, unless I am sexually aroused. So since it's working, I must be aroused then. So if I am aroused by her, then why isn't my penis not getting hard without viagra?
The reason why I am working against my penis's preference, is because my penis is being super shallow about it. That's like rejecting a woman, just because she doesn't have large breasts, when every other quality is good. I am not that shallow, but yet people are telling me I should be just because my penis is that shallow.
You know how in the woman movie Shallow Hal, the one character rejects a woman cause her second toe, is bigger, than her big toe? That's what I feel like, when people tell me to go for what the penis wants, even if it's a shallow quality.
How is it shallow to like what you like sexually?
Frankly, I think you should consider yourself lucky that you actually have an idea of what you want/like. Many people get married or otherwise committed before understanding their desires and needs, and it makes for some ugly situations.
The reason why I am working against my penis's preference, is because my penis is being super shallow about it. That's like rejecting a woman, just because she doesn't have large breasts, when every other quality is good. I am not that shallow, but yet people are telling me I should be just because my penis is that shallow.
You know how in the woman movie Shallow Hal, the one character rejects a woman cause her second toe, is bigger, than her big toe? That's what I feel like, when people tell me to go for what the penis wants, even if it's a shallow quality.
Hey, if you think you can outthink attraction, more power to you. But how's that working out? Not too well, from the sound of it.
Also, assuming that a woman who is capable of being dominant in sexual activities has no other redeeming qualities actually IS rather shallow of you. Why would you assume that you can't meet a perfectly lovely, amazing, kind, attractive, interesting (fill in the blank with whatever appeals to you) woman who also happens to be open to the type of sexual activity you prefer?
It seems like you're pretty closed off to the idea that you could find somebody who checks off all the boxes, or that sexually aggressive women can have many other attributes in addition to their sexual preferences.
Dude, your a guy, being led around by your penis is not only normal its almost expected. Don't argue with it. Your penis has no morals and no feelings of remorse. Just be glad that your penis has any preferences at all.
Okay thanks. Here is what I don't understand though.
The doctors say that I have to be aroused for the viagra to work. So I if it's working than I must be aroused by the women. But if I am aroused, then why isn't it working naturally, without it, if that's the case?
Okay thanks. Here is what I don't understand though.
The doctors say that I have to be aroused for the viagra to work. So I if it's working than I must be aroused by the women. But if I am aroused, then why isn't it working naturally, without it, if that's the case?
Start a weight training program and do cardio with timed sprints. It will increase the testosterone in your system. If you get serious in the gym, your penis will always be awake and yelling at you. You are really worrying too much out of this. Either find aggressive women or buy stock in Pfizer.
I wish I had your problem. My penis and I are not even on speaking terms. It has been so long it is suing me for abandonment.
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