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Old 06-04-2017, 07:35 AM
 
Location: Western MA
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55 here and they are more regular now than ever before in my life. It's maddening. I am so sick of the week of anxiety, cramps and PMS, the horrible cramps during, 5 days of mess and other discomforts. I also have a lot of trouble sleeping in that week before. I know that there are health advantages to not being menopausal but, I am so over having a period.

My company sent out a voluntary retirement option proposal this Spring (which I am not taking) and I am sitting here thinking, how can I be at an age where retirement is starting to be expected and still be in this state?

Anyone else?
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Old 06-04-2017, 07:51 AM
 
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I feel for you. Mine were over by my mid 40s and I celebrated. I never even had a bad menopause, just a few hot flashes now and then. It was great to be done with it all.

Good luck to you.
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Old 06-04-2017, 09:43 AM
 
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Mine stopped at 57. My GYN promised that it would end eventually and he was right.
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Old 06-04-2017, 11:37 AM
 
Location: equator
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56 here. I thought they would never end. Stopped all at once completely too. No bad menopausal symptoms. But since I didn't start till 21, can't complain too much!


SO wonderful to be period-free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 06-04-2017, 11:44 AM
 
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56 here. I thought they would never end. Stopped all at once completely too. No bad menopausal symptoms. But since I didn't start till 21, can't complain too much!


SO wonderful to be period-free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Really? Wow, your period didn't start until you were 21 or am I reading that wrong? I started at 9 and I would love for it to be over by my mid-40s or preferably sooner! It should definitely stop when women can't have children any longer. Periods are dumb and unnecessary.
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Old 06-04-2017, 11:48 AM
 
Location: equator
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Really? Wow, your period didn't start until you were 21 or am I reading that wrong? I started at 9 and I would love for it to be over by my mid-40s or preferably sooner! It should definitely stop when women can't have children any longer. Periods are dumb and unnecessary.

Amazing but true. I was so happy about it all thru' school years. My mom wanted to take me in for an exam at age 18 but I didn't want to go.


I never wanted kids and never got any (2 miscarriages) so there was probably something amiss "down there". I'll never really know...


Age NINE!!! Oh I feel bad for you!


Hopefully you'll be in 40's-cessation bracket!
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Old 06-04-2017, 03:42 PM
 
Location: Western MA
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56 here. I thought they would never end. Stopped all at once completely too. No bad menopausal symptoms. But since I didn't start till 21, can't complain too much!


SO wonderful to be period-free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sure, rub it in!
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Old 06-04-2017, 06:02 PM
 
Location: Houston
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Sure, rub it in!
I've never had a period.
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Old 06-04-2017, 06:32 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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Mine stopped at 55. They were regular until about age 54 and then they went nuts, I'd skip a month and then have a mega-period like the Nile at flood season.

I'm happily post-menopausal now at age 63, but I would want to go through what I experienced in the years between 55 and 60 for anything in the world.
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Old 06-04-2017, 07:09 PM
 
Location: Saint John, IN
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I feel for you. Mine were over by my mid 40s and I celebrated. I never even had a bad menopause, just a few hot flashes now and then. It was great to be done with it all.

Good luck to you.


I was completely through menopause at age 41 (started at 38). I was done having kids, but just felt like I shouldn't have gone through it so early. OP, if everything is still normal I wouldn't worry about it, but you can always talk to your Gyn and see what they say about it. BTW, my mom was 54.
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