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Old 03-11-2018, 06:09 PM
 
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Is there anything over the counter that would work? I don't have Ins and have not seen a doc since 1990. Just noticed a drop off the last 6 years and now i have no wish or drive at all to do anything.

Want to be 19 again.
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Old 03-11-2018, 06:26 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Is there anything over the counter that would work? I don't have Ins and have not seen a doc since 1990. Just noticed a drop off the last 6 years and now i have no wish or drive at all to do anything.

Want to be 19 again.
So if the problem is just that you don't want to...then why are you so down that you don't want to? Do you feel like you should? Or are you depressed/concerned that you haven't had the opportunity? Is someone nagging you for sex? Lots of possibilities here...
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Old 03-11-2018, 06:38 PM
 
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Just don't think about sex anymore. Been with 100's of people and now i just don't care anymore. I want my drive back so i am hunting 24/7 for action like the old days.
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Old 03-11-2018, 06:57 PM
 
Location: Old Hippie Heaven
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Just don't think about sex anymore. Been with 100's of people and now i just don't care anymore. I want my drive back so i am hunting 24/7 for action like the old days.
As a woman, I am very puzzled by this remark.

If you don't want to do "it" and don't care any more, why are you hunting for action?

There's plenty of entertaining things to do other than actively searching for an opportunity to do what you don't want to do.
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Old 03-11-2018, 07:01 PM
 
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As a woman, I am very puzzled by this remark.

If you don't want to do "it" and don't care any more, why are you hunting for action?

There's plenty of entertaining things to do other than actively searching for an opportunity to do what you don't want to do.
I'm not hunting. I said i want the old days back were i would be hunting 24/7. Something in the body is missing to make me not want sex anymore.
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Old 03-11-2018, 07:02 PM
 
Location: Boston
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Just don't think about sex anymore. Been with 100's of people and now i just don't care anymore. I want my drive back so i am hunting 24/7 for action like the old days.
So you don't care but you want to want.?

Schopenhauer wrote,
"A man may do what he wants but not want what he wants."

Nosce te ipsum. !
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Old 03-11-2018, 10:12 PM
 
Location: Old Hippie Heaven
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I'm not hunting. I said i want the old days back were i would be hunting 24/7. Something in the body is missing to make me not want sex anymore.
Some men take testosterone to get their libido back. Some men look at the possible consequences of doing that and decide that there are worse things than being retired from the hunt, and look for new ways to relate to women, other than seeing us as objects to be hunted.

I used to enjoy lots of things when I was young that don't especially interest me now. For instance, partying until 3 am, then going out for breakfast, then to bed (by myself or not). I'm glad I did it, and I'm glad I don't feel compelled to keep on doing it. That was then, this is now. Is it really a new idea to you that over the course of 70 years, it's natural for your desires and priorities to change?

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Old 03-11-2018, 10:31 PM
 
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How old are you? Overweight? Depressed? Diabetic? The only things that work are prescribed unless you are one of the above.
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Old 03-12-2018, 04:32 AM
 
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How old are you? Overweight? Depressed? Diabetic? The only things that work are prescribed unless you are one of the above.
54. 6.2 195lbs Not depressed or diabetic . Fit as a bull never been to a doc or even been sick in my life. Just lost the urge to do what i used to do.
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Old 03-12-2018, 05:29 AM
 
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Just don't think about sex anymore. Been with 100's of people and now i just don't care anymore. I want my drive back so i am hunting 24/7 for action like the old days.
Nature is giving you a hint that you are getting over the young buck stage of your life. I wouldnt worry too much about it as its a natural progression of the body.
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