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Old 11-22-2014, 04:44 PM
 
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When you have new friends over, do you give them a tour of your house? And, if a bit messy, would you show them anyhow?
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Old 11-22-2014, 04:47 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I don't now.

I used to when I was a more insecure, status-conscious newlywed. But all my friends were, too, so we all did it.
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Old 11-22-2014, 04:48 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Well, they get a mini-tour of the first floor, so that they know where the rooms (especially the powder room) are.

If they want to see more, I have no problem with it.
I don't do messy - not since the kids were small.
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Old 11-22-2014, 04:51 PM
 
Location: southern california
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No people that don't have guests much get robbed less
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Old 11-22-2014, 04:53 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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What?
We have guests/friends over at least once a week... not one of our friends have robbed us.
What kind of friends do you have that you even think that?
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Old 11-22-2014, 06:43 PM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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We gave the tour when out of town friends came to visit for the first time. Sometimes, if I've done something new to a room, I'll show a woman friend, but not the husbands, who could not care less.
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Old 11-22-2014, 06:52 PM
 
Location: Tucson for awhile longer
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Only if they ask.

I was asked just recently by a man who flips houses. His wife is a Realtor and she's been to my place quite a few times. The first time she brought him for a small social event, he said, "How about a tour of your house?" I had a feeling the two of them had discussed my place earlier. Which is fine with me. I've flipped a few houses myself, and when I bought them everyone I knew not only wanted a tour, they wanted to offer up their ideas of what I should do with the remodel.

I got some good ideas that way and learned what future buyers might be looking for. I've found I never know when I might have to put a house up for sale, so it's good to keep track of what the prevailing taste is and how my property fits in. I had my house painted last year and I went with the consensus color choice of family and acquaintances, which turned out not to be the scheme I would have chosen, left to my own devices. I've had a lot of compliments from the neighbors, so I think listening to others was a good decision on my part.
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Old 11-22-2014, 07:17 PM
 
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No not new friends in most cases, but old friends or close friends, and even family that have never been over. Yes, for sure.
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Old 11-22-2014, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Canada
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When we first moved here we showed our friends the house the first time they visited. We've been here for 13 years so it's been a long time since I gave a house tour.
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Old 11-22-2014, 07:59 PM
 
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What?
We have guests/friends over at least once a week... not one of our friends have robbed us.
What kind of friends do you have that you even think that?
Frankly, especially if you have "new" friends, you never know. A neighbor was friends with a fellow he rented a mobile home to. There was no sign of problem until his stuff started turning up missing. The fellow had developed a drug habit. Even if your friends are fine, THEIR friends are unknown and people talk - often about anything unusual or of value.
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