We need to get the HECK OUT OF HOUSTON!!!!!!! (Conroe: for sale, apartment) - City-Data Forum

kittytoes2006 · 06-15-2009, 03:39 AM

OK, sorry I've not posted in some time, but we have just been so busy with work, trying to survive here and just life in general. Some of you might remember me. We moved here to Houston because of a job promotion for myself. Took the plunge and moved from a lovely country home (sold it....dumb move) to Houston and we have despised it since we got here. No offense to you folks who are happy here. It's not the country and I really didn't realize I would miss the country atmosphere so much. Of course all the things that have happened since we've been here have a lot to do with the feelings we have for this place....the 4th largest city in the U.S. We had not been here 2 months until an older teenager rode up to our home on his bicycle and stole our yard man's leaf blower, in broad daylight. I just happened to be looking out the front window when the guy reached over into the bed of the truck and lifted it out. He rides off down the street, me running behind him in my bathrobe and hair in a towel, yelling obscenities a "lady" should NEVER be heard saying. Called the police...there is nothing they can do. Two months later....Wal-Mart (Hwy.6 & Westpark) grocery shopping, another kid walks by my shopping cart and tries to take my purse. I had it locked in with the seatbelt so the dumb thing just kept tugging on the purse hoping it would eventually end up in his hands, he tries to take off and I trip him up and he falls head first into the freezer door handle and gets a bloody nose. I personally delivered him to the security at the front of the store. Called the police...there is nothing they can do because he's a juvenile. Well, they actually DID do something....the police called his parents and his dad came out and told the police to "lock his a_ _ up, there ain't nuttin I can do wid him no mo". They took him away. December 2, 2008, (Wal-Mart again) I was pulling out of the Wal-Mart parking lot onto Westpark, I turned into the lane closest to me. The very second I pulled into my lane a guy changes lanes and ended up right behind me. He's in a real big hurry (like everyone else seems to be), he's mad because I'm not going fast enough for his taste, he tries to ram my car. When that didn't work he moves to the front and tries to get me to ram HIS car. THAT didn't work. I just mind my own business going home with my groceries. I stop at a light, he pulls up beside me, gets out and slams the butt of a handgun into my passenger window. I thought he had shot me. Called the police....there's nothing they can do. Now get this, the police officer said, "How do we know it was even a real gun"? Also, "Now if he had SHOT the gun or done any real damage to your vehicle we might be able to do something". OK, now if this same thing happened to a police officer would they not consider that this was a real gun? HOW REAL DOES IT HAVE TO GET? It was a 9 mm handgun....I SAW IT!!!! So, with all that said, I hardly even leave my home anymore. I'm scared to even walk out to my own mailbox. There was a driveby shooting 2 weeks ago just 2 streets over from us. We even heard the gun. A 14-year-old boy was shot and killed and a 16-year-old was left for dead....never heard if he made it or not. It was over a pair of SNEAKERS!!!!

And if all of the above is not enough I hated the job I was transferred here to take. We live 12 miles from the office and it took me 45 minutes to get there. Long story short, I went back to my previous job duties (my choice) and now our landlord is selling the home we are leasing. He asked if we would consider buying it and we told him NO WAY....not in this neighborhood. Does anyone know of a better place for us to move to? Robert said we need to look up toward north or northeast....preferably a country setting. I am workinf from home again now and then after work I make dolls. PLEASE SOMEONE....we need to try to find something soon as he's got a for sale sign in the yard. We want something in the country preferably, even a doublewide mobile home as long as it is clean and nicel On a lake??? Anything as long as it's not just outrageously high in rent. We are paying $1000 here now and will NOT be able to do that again. It's ridiculous. I think this man is going to have a hard time selling this home with the area it is in. By the way, the police told me each time....it's not just THIS area, it's EVERYWHERE in the Houston area. HELP!!!! SOS!!!!!

Topaz · 06-15-2009, 05:02 AM

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Originally Posted by kittytoes2006

By the way, the police told me each time....it's not just THIS area, it's EVERYWHERE in the Houston area. HELP!!!! SOS!!!!!

Wow, that's horrible. I'm so sorry that all this bad stuff has happened to you.

The police were wrong...these types of experiences are NOT happening to everyone all the time throughout the entire Houston area. In many areas these would be considered unusual and shocking events. I've been here over a year and I haven't witnessed or been victimized by a single crime incident.

I don't know which Houston areas are considered "country" but I am confident that other posters will know and will be able to guide you.

SkyeAnjel · 06-15-2009, 05:08 AM

I believe the closest you will get to country will be the Conroe area..but thats not Houston, it is just north though. That is where I live..I am not a fan of Houston either..

Malvie · 06-15-2009, 05:17 AM

I'm sorry that these bad things happened to you, it does sound as if you've been caught in a tough-luck situation.

You will be hard-pressed to find a "country" place anything like reasonably close to Houston. My family has a ranch in Flatonia, and it is, in fact, "country"---80 miles from Houston. I don't know about rental values there, either (ranch is not for rent, just saying I'm familiar with that area). I will say, when we stay out there, it's an hour to get TO Houston, then another half-hour or so to get to the office.

I think you're going to have to prepare for some serious driving to find a "country" area around here---the city's pretty urban.

Good luck to you.

Mitchum Carmex · 06-15-2009, 05:21 AM

I have a news flash for you - what you are experiencing is a lot bigger than "Houston". It is happening in every major city that I have been to, and until this year I travelled a lot - coast to coast. I think it has to do with increased populations, economic downturns and the fact that we have so many immigrants (legal and illegal) that came here for a better life and found a recession teetering on depression.

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However, no one can dispute that in the "country" you will at least be one or two degrees removed from the elements that wish to do you harm. I've had stuff stolen from my lawn guy, and I had a very similar traffic incident except minus the gun. I am confident the gentleman would have never made it to my window with a pistol drawn.

I know a few people that live in Sante Fe who commute into Houston. You may also consider areas north of Tomball where even more people I know commute from. Both locations are very country, and even feature a lake or two.

Poltracker · 06-15-2009, 05:24 AM

Wow! I've lived in Houston most of my life and never experienced all that. Car broken into many times when I lived in Montrose and apartment broken into once (they tried pretty hard anyway), yes I was home and the police took them away. Never had a gun pulled or my purse snatched.

If you are looking NE, you might try Crosby/Dayton area. The city is growing, but that area is still countrified.

Newdaawn · 06-15-2009, 05:29 AM

You don't say where you lived before Houston but if you were happy there, consider going back. If you want to make a long move - consider Northern New England. If you work from home it wouldn't make much difference where you are. Check out Maine - that's where I am and love it here. After Houston however, you may not appreciate the winters but it is much better than facing daily crime and fear of leaving your house.

spm6110 · 06-15-2009, 06:00 AM

Yeah I think the frustrating part is that the police response to everything is "we can't do anything about that" and then they try to make you feel like poop by saying things like "we have bigger things to worry about like murders." I know it a big ciy but it's still so frustrating.

TexasTheKid · 06-15-2009, 08:19 AM

Well, you've sold me on your house. I'll take it. I can't imagine a neighborhood better than yours. I love living in crime infested suburban holes. Honestly, I think you may need to work on your sales pitch. Seriously.

Also, I couldn't help but notice that two or your incidents occurred at Wal-Mart. So you know, Wal-Mart in the city ain't nuthin' like a Wal-Mart in the country. In the country, Wal-Mart is the new Main Street. It's where all the locals gather to meet and discuss the weather, buy shotguns and whittle wooden figures from sticks. In the city, Wal-Mart is a wretched hive of scum and villainy. It's where the degenerates breed. Go into a city Wal-Mart at 2 in the morning, and you'll find what can best be described as a zoo where all the animals have been released from their cages. Start shopping at Target. You'll grow to like the city again.

EasilyAmused · 06-15-2009, 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by TexasTheKid

Well, you've sold me on your house. I'll take it. I can't imagine a neighborhood better than yours. I love living in crime infested suburban holes. Honestly, I think you may need to work on your sales pitch. Seriously.

Also, I couldn't help but notice that two or your incidents occurred at Wal-Mart. So you know, Wal-Mart in the city ain't nuthin' like a Wal-Mart in the country. In the country, Wal-Mart is the new Main Street. It's where all the locals gather to meet and discuss the weather, buy shotguns and whittle wooden figures from sticks. In the city, Wal-Mart is a wretched hive of scum and villainy. It's where the degenerates breed. Go into a city Wal-Mart at 2 in the morning, and you'll find what can best be described as a zoo where all the animals have been released from their cages. Start shopping at Target. You'll grow to like the city again.

Especially at a Walmart at Highway 6 and Westpark. Is that even in Houston right there? Oh, I just looked it up. That's Alief. No wonder.