I love the month of Dec. it comes from my mom. She always made Christmas special we never even realized weather we were rich or poor she just made it happen and that is what I do with my kids. My oldest just turned 18 yesterday and we have always made his birthday separate from Christmas.
We wait and get the tree the following weekend and I have tried to make it more about the Reason for the Season. We decorate and bake and play Christmas music and try not to get to involved in the commercializing of it. We do live in a very small town with major stores being 2 hours away so we don't go in and out of stores all month. We have a Rite-Aid and 2 grocery stores so we are not distracted by all the keeping up with the Jones.
Remembering our lost loved ones can be the most difficult. fun in the sun sorry for you loss. I know losing so much in a short time is hard to catch your breath. I lost my mom a year ago in Oct. my best friend since our junior year in H.S past away in Aug of this year she was only 45 and my dad is probably not going to make it much longer his been in and out of the hospital for 3 weeks now and his 89. I just keep in mind the good Lord has a better plan and thats what keeps me going forward with a smile on my face.
As a child I just remember all the fantasy of Christmas it seems like that is being taken away from our children. I remember when my mom would ask what I wanted I was aware of money and wouldn't ask for much now kids are asking for toys that cost $200.00+ the fun is being ruined. I believe its the time you spend together and the memories you make together will last longer then the toy you are still in debit for after its all over. MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL!!!
