Originally Posted by chet everett
I appreciate your frustration. I think many home buyers go through a similar bout of angst. It is a major financial decision that can have a lot of emotions attached to it as well.
You want to move someplace that you will be comfortable and feel that the neighbors share similar values, I completely understand this. While there are no guarantees I do think that most places will reward you in equal measure to your efforts. What I mean is that if you move into any town and expect there to be some "welcoming party" that makes it very easy to meet everyone you will likely be disappointed BUT if you move in and make some effort to get to know your neighbors through simply walking around and getting involved in things like the Park District and simple gatherings you probably will not be disappointed.
Similar maxims hold true for the potential success of your children in the local schools -- if you simply assume they'll be fine because the data on the district is positive it is not as good as becoming involved in the PTA, school board, grade level involvement et cetera. Ultimately the influence you have as a parent is far greater than ANYTHING the school does or does not provide.
In my experience similar research into the local politics and active commitment to the town will have a positive effect on the price appreciation / stability of your home. Whether moving into an area with all new homes or one with a majority of older homes you can judge the level of care that the municipal services, individual home owners and even developers have given to building and maintaining properties. If there are teardowns that are out of character the area may have gone a sudden dramatic change, while if there is a progression of homes that show more attention to detail and subsequent increase in price/quality it is a much better sign. Over the long term the smaller older homes in desirable areas will be replaced or improved/renovated, but this could take a long time and should not be a negative.
I can honestly say that I know of few if any areas where there is not quite a large spread in prices. Even in new condo developments, where one might expect prices to be tightly clustered, there are buildings where the range in prices is rather dramatic 3x, 5x, 7x differences are very common.
In nearly every town that I know of there is also a broad economic/ educational mix of people. I was only joking a little about the situation of a billionaire college drop out like Ty Warner of Beanie Baby fame -- he does live in Oak Brook where some of his neighbors are attorneys, physicians, business leaders with advanced degrees, the occasional owner of a contracting firm with blue collar roots, nice retired empty nester or even a regular public employee or "salary man" working at a 9-to-5 job. These people will not always agree on everything, but I assure you that is not the case in any "planned community" either, where despite restrictive covenants there are HUGE range of opinions as to what ought to be 'acceptable' in/around each owners' "castle"...
In nearly every town there are folks that do not make ideal role models for your kids, whether they are drinkers/substance abusers, simply keep their lawn or patio in shambles, park too many cars in the drive/yard, talk too loudly, have too many pets, too many kids, too little supervision etc, you will find less than ideal neighbors from just about every income/education level.
Do not let these realities get in the way of what you really desire: a house you will be happy with in a town you feel comfortable coming home to every night. The amount you are willing to spend gives you much flexibility in finding many options. Do not be afraid to evaluate all the pluses and all the minuses of many houses simultaneously. Ultimately I feel there is a bit of serendipity and every buyer feels a bit of remorse as there is ALWAYS a compromise. You will never totally escape the "grass is greener" feelings, but by doing exactly what you are doing (looking at multiple potential options) you will avoid making a serious misjudgment. The terrific levels of inventory should be in your favor as this is different than in years past where buyers felt they had to scramble to find ANYTHING in some towns. Now there are many towns that have a great variety of homes to offer.
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