You will NOT tolerate the winter haul from South Bend to Warsaw. Believe me. We get some nasty winters around here and honestly, it's just not worth the risk to life and limb.
You sound like you fancy yourself to be quite cosmopolitan - and Warsaw does not fit the bill. It is an oasis of good jobs with the solid orthopedic industry companies in the area: Zimmer (an offshoot of Bristol Myer Squibb), Depuy, and Biomet to name the biggies in the area.
Unemployment is low. Housing prices are, especially by "big city" standards still quite low. It's a low crime area. Good ole' American town.
If you're into outdoors life it is a city with many lakes surrounding it.....which is what most people around here like to do in the summer.
Lake Wawasee is in Syracuse - about a 20 minutes drive from Warsaw (about as long a drive as I like to make in Indiana winters). Lake Wawasee is the yuppy lake to be seen on in the area - although lakes closer to Warsaw are growing in popularity - and correspondingly as property values rise, so do our property taxes - which is something that is causing quite an uproar around here lately.
There is not much culture to speak of in Warsaw. No big sporting events beyond the local high school teams - which this town is VERY proud of - and have built what you'd think is a monument to some Greek god when you drive past the local high school.
The restaurants are overall pretty ordinary.
Bottom line: This is not Sex in the City territory.
Still, it is a wonderful city by "grown up" standards. Low cost of living. Good schools overall. Low crime. Even the "bad" parts of town are pretty decent.
You can truly afford to buy a nice home here and make a life. There are some decently educated men to be had. The jobs here draw educated men - and provide a decent standard of living for a new family.
Now don't get me wrong - the town THINKS of herself as very cosmopolitan - there are the "Warsaw Man of the Year" events and people are downright "filthy rich" if they live in a house that's worth $650,000 - which, of course by Chicago standards would be a piece of crap.
You can get a perfectly respectable home for not alot of money around here - and to be frank, I think one should certainly consider the life they COULD have in Warsaw is better than the one they COULD have in a bigger city where there IS a professional sports team, sushi bars all around and spas on every other corner.
After all, you CAN cut your own toenails.........and I can slap down a bill for 5 times what it cost me for a piece of raw fish and roll up yesterday's rice for you if it's really that important to you.
If you really MUST, I'd suggest Fort Wayne over South Bend anyday.
But honestly, I just strenuously discourage commuting in the winter around here. I just can't see anyone doing that for long.