I am a transplant from Northern California

Yes, that's the typical reaction I get - But you got to go where the job is.
Looks like I have moved at the best possible time with Spring in the air, although I have experience few flurries in early april and 0.1" hail as well.
Yeah, having lived in a rental 1+ million $ house in Cal., the real estate here is mouth watering. But I am resisting the temptation and looking for a rental house for a year - real estate market being what it is and just to make sure I and my family want to spend several years here.
The housing rental market is a bit out of whack compared to the real estate value. We used to pay 2100$ for a 1+ million $ house. Here, I am struggling to find a rental house in the West Allen county area for 1500$. And these properties are about 200k value. Here's a shout out to anyone who wants to rent a house in West Allen county.
So, for a house renter, Fort Wayne isn't exactly a great saving. Restaurant prices and groceries are no different than N. Cal. Gas prices are probably 10 to 15 cents cheaper. But the commutes are short, so it doesn't make much of a difference.
A shorter commute definitely adds to the quality of life. I used to commute 45 minutes each way minimally. Now it is 10 minutes max
Another negative is the utility bills. I hear that 150$/month is on the low side. It can easily be 200 - 250$/month! That just about knocks off the
couple of hundred rental savings.
I find the place to be a conservative place with people putting their kids in private christian schools, home schooling, advocating prayers in school.
I am a Hindu and was fully aware before moving here that this is, "the city of churches" and the state has a logo, "In God we trust" (Where does that leave my million Gods *and* Goddesses

. Actually, Hindus also believe in one Supreme Being. But that's another story). But the beauty of U.S. constitution and its progressiveness is that I feel safe and comfortable despite this and I have not experienced discrimination.
Apart from this, politically, people are conservative. No shocker there but still it catches your attention. Randomly I heard people disapproving same sex marriage bill in Iowa, openly advocating guns ("the gruesome murders in upstate new york wouldn't have happened if people had guns"

. I thought those murders happened exactly because that nutcase could easily purchase guns. Now, I don't want to get into any debate about the "right to arms" stuff. I am just giving my impression. You don't have to agree with me!)
Other things like, "Obama is wasting money by spending it". In a nuanced way that may be true - like bailing out those financial institutions who are quite a bit responsible in the first place for today's economy. On the other hand, I feel the government should be spending trillions to get out of recession and avoid a depression. Why the tough love for car makers and kid gloves for those SOBs in Citi/BOA/AIG ?
We have a preteen daughter and I am a bit anxious about her schooling.
She will be moving in after she is done with her current school year.
My wife and I visited couple of schools. Quality seems much better than what is there in the Bay Area, Cal. But in a 95% white community, will she face harrasement (sp?) ? I don't know. There are hardly any Indo-americans in the schools. Like 5 in the entire school of 1000!
In her current school, out of a class of 30, there are like 15 oriental, 8 indo-american, 2 middle eastern, 3 caucasian and 1 african american.
She grew up in the Bay Area and I think she will be ok. A little exposure to "real america" and snow will probably do her good
Thank you for reading this. Best wishes.