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Originally Posted by Lovehound
I'm with the dude/dudette whose name is all caps and hard to remember...
All my money in the market is in unrealized gains/losses. It's imaginary money. It's like Schrodinger's cat. It's in an alive/dead state until I look (until sell my stock).
Anybody is a fool if they look at today's value of their portfolio. It ain't worth nothin' until you sell it and realize your profits or losses.
I'm up $10K in real money due to profits I took earlier this year. I could tell you what I could get for it next time the market is open. But I wouldn't. A man's net worth is nobody's business but his own.
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far from the case of being a fool . .
realized or unrealized is irrelevant . it is all your money and represents your net worth at anytime . the fact you may not care is a different story .
there is zero difference between closing out a position each night and rebuying the same or a different investment each morning , vs leaving the money in play over night .
anyone who thinks there is a difference is just fooling themselves .
what you have is just a variable balance like a job on commission .
the amount you have today may go higher or lower but it is still all your own money for the taking at any point . you just choose to keep the money in play and let it vary .
there may be a good chance in the future it will be worth more but no guarantee .
in fact the older you get the lass the chance , as time becomes more of a factor . 2000 took a total market fund 13 years just to get back adjusted for inflation .
could you back test and find combo's of investments that did better ? sure . but personal choices in allocations are never used as benchmarks .
so there ain't no such thing as only a loss on paper . in fact your retirement draw is based on total portfolio value , not just what you sell .
never forget all compounding is on your opening balance .
if markets go up 10% next year , going up 10% on 500k is a lot less than 10% on 300k if that is all you have after a fall .
so get this it is only a paper loss out of your head .
people do the same thing when they call their investment "principal " and house money .
noooooo , it is all your own money 100% of the time . your cost basis may vary but that money in your brokerage account in unrealized gains is just as much all yours at any point in time as your bank account balance on any day . doesn't your checking account vary daily as you pay bills or get interest ?
never confuse the fact you may not care what your balance or net worth is daily with the fact it is exactly what it is .