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Old 08-30-2015, 04:29 PM
 
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Can't you think in principle?
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Old 09-02-2015, 06:26 AM
 
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I'm talking about the Holy Qur'an and the Hadith

So

Your words incorrect




-- Women hit Beating women have certain conditions
Condescension and arrogance of the husband and mistreatment
Women hit by tooth brushing your teeth

This is the mercy of God
Because tooth brushing is a small piece and very light wood
In the sense that women will not suffer at all
But
In other religions
I see women in a degrading tormented
Such as
Beatings with whips and iron tools and the use of fire


Women hit comes in the final stage completely

To see the greatness of Islamic legislation
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امريكي مسيحي يدافع عن الاسلام - American Christian defends Islam



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Old 09-06-2015, 03:49 PM
 
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After accepting Islam 10 years ago I have had acts of violence done against me. I have received death threats, I have had to move twice after being told Muslims were not wanted and if I stayed my house would be burned down with me in it.
I am sorry, this is not right you have to go through this, I don't condone it. However, I expect you can understand their viewpoint which led to their foolish actions. The atrocities we see Muslims commit overseas, and the terrorism they've produced, and the propaganda they have on the web stating their plan is to take over the US, and introduce Sharia law. Can you not see why people are fearful? Or do not want Muslims in their community? I believe in treating everyone equally until they show they shouldn't be. So I do not condone any violence or maltreatment of Muslims or anyone who happens to be different from me or has different beliefs. But I do know that this beliefs is not reciprocated in many Muslim countries, or places where they are the majority population. Such as some towns in my home country of England.

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I still do not see any place in the Qur'an or Ahadith that I am commanded to harm anyone. as for Shariah treats woman with equality, does not force women to dress in accordance with their standard of modesty, does not forbid woman from driving or having an education and Job if they desire. that is Shariah, not the , not the Wahabbi'ism called Shariah and followed by some Muslims
While you gave some good examples of females who had equal opportunities. There are many more that do not have the same opportunities. In England, in the non Wahhabi community, many Muslim women are subjugated by their male family members. They cannot date or even befriend a non muslim school mate (male). There has been many honor killings and female mutilation. My friend's family member who is a hospital nurse there has had to assist with abortions of female babies as male babies are a badge of honor for many Muslims there. And certainly they do not have the freedom to dress as conservative Western woman do. In Iran, women are required to wear the hijab. After the revolution, women who didn't cover had stones thrown at them by men in the street. Or were stopped by the (Shiite) Morals police. There is a very interesting perspective from an American female write about her visits to Iran. This book details life for women there mostly since '79 to 2000. It makes for an interesting read https://books.google.com/books?id=T7...r%20up&f=false Reading this I learned something new, there is tradition called "sigheh". It's temporary marriage used for men travelling out of town and for others wishing to enter into a short (hrs to years) physical relationship. Is this Muslim or cultural?

You mentioned the UAE. My good friend just returned from there and my daughter has visited many times. It might appear that women are treated as equals, but still, there is much sexism there. Unrelated female to male touching (hand shaking, hug goodbye) is frowned upon.
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Old 09-07-2015, 11:35 AM
 
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I am sorry, this is not right you have to go through this, I don't condone it. However, I expect you can understand their viewpoint which led to their foolish actions. The atrocities we see Muslims commit overseas, and the terrorism they've produced, and the propaganda they have on the web stating their plan is to take over the US, and introduce Sharia law. Can you not see why people are fearful? Or do not want Muslims in their community? I believe in treating everyone equally until they show they shouldn't be. So I do not condone any violence or maltreatment of Muslims or anyone who happens to be different from me or has different beliefs. But I do know that this beliefs is not reciprocated in many Muslim countries, or places where they are the majority population. Such as some towns in my home country of England.



While you gave some good examples of females who had equal opportunities. There are many more that do not have the same opportunities. In England, in the non Wahhabi community, many Muslim women are subjugated by their male family members. They cannot date or even befriend a non muslim school mate (male). There has been many honor killings and female mutilation. My friend's family member who is a hospital nurse there has had to assist with abortions of female babies as male babies are a badge of honor for many Muslims there. And certainly they do not have the freedom to dress as conservative Western woman do. In Iran, women are required to wear the hijab. After the revolution, women who didn't cover had stones thrown at them by men in the street. Or were stopped by the (Shiite) Morals police. There is a very interesting perspective from an American female write about her visits to Iran. This book details life for women there mostly since '79 to 2000. It makes for an interesting read https://books.google.com/books?id=T7...r%20up&f=false Reading this I learned something new, there is tradition called "sigheh". It's temporary marriage used for men travelling out of town and for others wishing to enter into a short (hrs to years) physical relationship. Is this Muslim or cultural?

You mentioned the UAE. My good friend just returned from there and my daughter has visited many times. It might appear that women are treated as equals, but still, there is much sexism there. Unrelated female to male touching (hand shaking, hug goodbye) is frowned upon.
Actually I anticipated problems when I accepted Islam. Being from a predominatly oriental ancestry and raised Catholic I have faced prejudice much of my life. It was just more violent in the small town than I anticipated. But thank you for your concern. All seems to be ok now, we have learned to stay mostly among Native Americans, my wife is Cheyenne.


It is nealy if not impossible to compare one Islamic nation to another. Iran is very Unique it is the only Shi'ite Nation and the only Nation under the Rule of Ayatollahs. Sunni have no Central Religious leader and no Ayatollahs

Up until the ousting of the Shah and the end of the Palavi Rule--Which was the longest lasting Monarchy ever--Dating back to the Queen of Sheba. Iran was a very cosmopolitan modern European type nation.

The 12er sect of Shi'ism is unique to Iran alone and is not representative of Islam. The majority of Sunni do not consider Shi'a to be Muslim. However, it should be noted they are permitted in Mecca for Hajj and only Muslims are allowed in Mecca.

Just as Muslim women are not permitted to shake hands with an unrelated man a Muslim man is not permitted to shake hands with an unrelated woman. Yes there is separation of the sexes among unrelated people. this does not equate to unequal treatment. Mixing is permitted for business and such purposes, but trivial interaction is forbidden.

The UAE is a bit difficult for outsiders to understand. Basically it is a nation consisting of a single extended family. The oil wealth is shared and all citizens receive free education, free automobile gas, free utilities and more. All labor is done by non-Muslim foreigners. That are basicallytemporary residents living in the UAE on short term work Visas. There is a bit of snobbery involved. The employers do not associate with the hired help.
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Old 09-07-2015, 05:30 PM
 
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You and your wife are an interesting combination. I am fascinated the Native American culture and think we can learn much from them.

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Actually I anticipated problems when I accepted Islam. Being from a predominatly oriental ancestry and raised Catholic I have faced prejudice much of my life. It was just more violent in the small town than I anticipated. But thank you for your concern. All seems to be ok now, we have learned to stay mostly among Native Americans, my wife is Cheyenne.
It is nealy if not impossible to compare one Islamic nation to another. Iran is very Unique it is the only Shi'ite Nation and the only Nation under the Rule of Ayatollahs. Sunni have no Central Religious leader and no Ayatollahs
Thanks for sharing. I am quite familiar with Iran, have relatives from there. And I remember all too well the ousting of Shah Pahlavi. My life was impacted tremendously from this.

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Up until the ousting of the Shah and the end of the Palavi Rule--Which was the longest lasting Monarchy ever--Dating back to the Queen of Sheba. Iran was a very cosmopolitan modern European type nation.

The 12er sect of Shi'ism is unique to Iran alone and is not representative of Islam. The majority of Sunni do not consider Shi'a to be Muslim. However, it should be noted they are permitted in Mecca for Hajj and only Muslims are allowed in Mecca.

Just as Muslim women are not permitted to shake hands with an unrelated man a Muslim man is not permitted to shake hands with an unrelated woman. Yes there is separation of the sexes among unrelated people. this does not equate to unequal treatment. Mixing is permitted for business and such purposes, but trivial interaction is forbidden.

The UAE is a bit difficult for outsiders to understand. Basically it is a nation consisting of a single extended family. The oil wealth is shared and all citizens receive free education, free automobile gas, free utilities and more. All labor is done by non-Muslim foreigners. That are basicallytemporary residents living in the UAE on short term work Visas. There is a bit of snobbery involved. The employers do not associate with the hired help.
Yes, many foreign workers are from Indian and Pakistan. There was a time when foreigners couldn't own property there, but can now. Now sure if there are limits. I have a relative who did contract engineering work there and bought a flat. The price of it has skyrocketed since he purchased it. Dubai is an engineering marvel. Much down to a prince who had vision. I cannot remember his name.
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Old 09-08-2015, 08:52 AM
 
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You and your wife are an interesting combination. I am fascinated the Native American culture and think we can learn much from them.


Thanks for sharing. I am quite familiar with Iran, have relatives from there. And I remember all too well the ousting of Shah Pahlavi. My life was impacted tremendously from this.


Yes, many foreign workers are from Indian and Pakistan. There was a time when foreigners couldn't own property there, but can now. Now sure if there are limits. I have a relative who did contract engineering work there and bought a flat. The price of it has skyrocketed since he purchased it. Dubai is an engineering marvel. Much down to a prince who had vision. I cannot remember his name.
We belong to a group called "TI Muslims" a group for Native American Muslims. Quite surprised to find there are Muslims on many reservations.. Typically as neither proselytize they co-exist along side each other without difficulty.

Muslim native Americans are not uncommon among the plains tribes. Islam has a long history out this way. Many of the Trading posts were opened by people from Syria While this was "Indian Territory" and they often married Native American Women. I know at least 6 Muslim families on Pine Ridge, one on the Cheyenne River Reservation and more on the Ojibway reservations in Minnesota. All with family histories predating the settlement of the region by the White people. Much of the Native American culture is Halal and acceptable to Muslims. My wife's family retains much of the traditional Red Road.

Dubai is quite a country. While it is a Muslim Nation over 90% of the population is not Muslim, the majority being Hindu workers from India.
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Old 09-11-2015, 04:18 AM
 
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A British man came to Muslim Person and asked:
Why is it not permissible in Islam for women to shake hands with a man?
The Muslim Person said:
Can you shake hands with Queen Elizabeth?
British man said:
Of course no, there are only certain people who can shake hands with Queen Elizabeth.
Muslim Person replied:
Our women are queens and queens do not shake hands with strange men.
Then the British man asked the Muslim Person:
Why do your girls cover up their body and hair?
The Muslim Person smiled and got two sweets, he opened the first one and kept the other one closed. He threw them both on the dusty floor and asked the British:
If I ask you to take one of the sweets which one will you choose?
The British replied:
The covered one.
The Muslim Person said:
That's how we treat and see our woman..




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Taking a girlfriend does not only destroy the family, it destroys society, and those who do this are threatened with the punishment and wrath of Allaah. Love is a sickness that destroys the heart and leads to evil and immorality. The Shaytaan will keep tempting them and pushing them until they commit immoral actions and thus each gets what he or she wants from the other.

There are many forbidden matters associated with this, such as transgressing against the honour of others, betraying trust, being alone with a member of the opposite sex, touching, kissing, speaking immoral words, then the greater evil which occurs at the end, which is the sin of zina.


Shaykh Muhammad al-Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen said:

Contact between lovers in improper and unlawful ways is a calamity and a real disaster. It is not permissible for the man to contact the woman in this case, or for the woman to contact the man. If he says that he wants to marry her, then he must tell her wali (guardian) that he wants to marry her, or she should tell her wali that she wants to marry him, as ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) did when he offered his daughter Hafsah in marriage to Abu Bakr and ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with them).

But if the woman contacts the man directly, this is the source of fitnah (temptation).






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The meeting together, mixing, and intermingling of men and women in one place, the crowding of them together, and the revealing and exposure of women to men are prohibited by the Law of Islam (Shari'ah). These acts are prohibited because they are among the causes for fitnah (temptation or trial which implies evil consequences), the arousing of desires, and the committing of indecency and wrongdoing.

Among the many proofs of prohibition of the meeting and mixing of men and women in the Qur’aan and Sunnah are:

Verse No. 53 of Surat al-Ahzab, or the Confederates (Interpretation of the meaning); "...for anything ye want, ask them from before a screen: that makes for greater purity for your hearts and for theirs..."

In explaining this Verse, Ibn Kathir (May Allaah have mercy on him) said: "Meaning, as I forbade you to enter their rooms, I forbid you to look at them at all. If one wants to take something from a woman, one should do so without looking at her. If one wants to ask a woman for something, the same has to be done from behind a screen."

The Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) enforced separation of men and women even at Allaah’s most revered and preferred place, the mosque. This was accomplished via the separation of the women’s rows from the men’s; men were asked to stay in the mosque after completion of the obligatory prayer so that women will have enough time to leave the mosque; and, a special door was assigned to women. Evidence of the foregoing are:

Umm Salamah (May Allah be pleased with her) said that after Allah’s Messenger (May peace and blessings be upon him) said "as-Salamu ‘Alaykum wa Rahmatullah’ twice announcing the end of prayer, women would stand up and leave. He would stay for a while before leaving. Ibn Shihab said that he thought that the staying of the Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) was in order for the women to be able to leave before the men who wanted to depart." Narrated by al-Bukhari under No. 793.

Abu Dawood under No. 876 narrates the same hadith in Kitab al-Salaat under the title "Insiraaf an-Nisaa’ Qabl al-Rijaal min al-Salaah" (Departure of Women before Men after the Prayer). Ibn ‘Umar said that Allah’s Messenger (May peace and blessings be upon him) said: "We should leave this door (of the mosque) for women." Naafi’ said: "Ibn ‘Umar never again entered through that door until he died." Narrated by Abu Dawood under No. 484 in "Kitab as-Salah" under the Chapter entitled: "at-Tashdid fi Thalik".

Abu Hurayrah said that the Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) said: ""The best of the men’s rows is the first and the worst is the last, and the best of the women’s rows is the last and the worst in the first." Narrated by Muslim under No. 664.

This is the greatest evidence that the Law of Islam (Shari'ah) forbids meeting and mixing of men and women. The farther the men are from the women’s rows, the better, and vice versa.

If these procedures and precautions were prescribed and adhered to in a mosque, which is a pure place of worship where people are as far away as they ever are from the arousal of desire and temptation, then no doubt the same procedures need to be followed even more rigorously at other places.

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lion,

A question for you (sorry if I have asked before & forgotten your reply):


Some Islamophobes on this forum (and elsewhere) say Islam is suppressive towards women. Yet, it has been conclusively proven that 70% of all new converts to Islam both in the USA and in Europe are women. This would be indicative that it is not suppressive but highly solicitous of women.

What do you say to those critics who insist that Islam suppresses women in light of that fact?


If I read you correctly, you are saying that Islam provides spiritual comforts and dimensions that other religions/teachings do not. That it is more than religious teaching but includes lifestyle alteration and attitudes which is what appeals to women.

One things for sure, Islam's critics have no answer for why so many women convert to it despite all the allegations that it is a contrarian religion.

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Old 11-04-2015, 06:14 AM
 
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Allaah Almighty says (what means): “To Allaah belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth; He creates what He wills. He gives to whom He wills female [children], and He gives to whom He wills males. Or He makes them [both] males and females, and He renders whom He wills barren. Indeed, He is Knowing and Competent.” [Quran 49:50] Allaah is the One, based on His ultimate wisdom, who grants whomever He wills sons and daughters; He grants sons only to whomever He wills, and grants daughters only to whomever He wills, and if He so wills, He makes whomever He wills infertile.

We notice in the above verse that the mention of daughters preceded that of sons, and the scholars may Allaah have mercy upon them commented on this saying: “This is to hearten daughters and encourage kindness towards them, because many fathers feel burdened by receiving a daughter. The common practice of the people during the pre-Islamic era was to hate receiving daughters, to the extent that they would bury them alive; therefore, it is as if Allaah is saying to people: `This inferior child in your estimation takes precedence in My scale.' He also mentions daughters first to indicate their weakness, and that they are therefore more deserving of care and attention.”

Such honouring of daughters is the complete opposite of how people were accustomed to dealing with females in the pre-Islamic era, when they would degrade women and consider them a part of their wealth, and if news of a baby girl would come to any of them, it would be as if he was hit by a thunderstorm; Allaah says (what means): which means: “And when one of them is informed of [the birth of] a female, his face becomes dark, and he suppresses grief. He hides himself from the people because of the ill of which he has been informed. Should he keep it in humiliation or bury it in the ground? Unquestionably, evil is what they decide.” [Quran 58:59]

It is said that some enemies of Qays ibn ‘Aasim At-Tameemi, who was a pre-Islamic Arab, attacked his premises and captured his daughter. Later, one of these enemies married her. After some time, the clan of Qays and that of his enemies reconciled, so they gave this daughter of his the freedom to go back to her father or remain with her husband, and she preferred to stay with her husband. At that point, Qays took a pledge upon himself to bury alive any new daughter that he would receive, and the Arabs imitated him after that. It was, therefore, this man who introduced this evil practice, and thus he will shoulder his own sin as well as the sin of all those who did it thereafter.

One of the companions may Allaah be pleased with him who had killed his daughter in the era that preceded Islam narrated his story: "We would worship idols in the pre-Islamic era and kill our daughters. I had a daughter, who, when she was old enough to comprehend and talk, would rejoice whenever she saw me and would immediately respond. One day, I called her and told her to follow me, so she did, until we reached a well that belonged to my tribe. I then took her by her hand and threw her in the well, and the last thing I heard her cry was: ‘O father! O father!'" (Ad-Daarimi)

During the era that preceded Islam, there were two methods that people used to kill their daughters:

∑ At the time of the delivery of the child, a man would order his wife to give birth next to a hole dug in the ground; if the newborn was a male, she would return home with him, otherwise, she would throw her into the pit and bury her alive, or:

∑ When the daughter reached six years of age, the man would tell his wife to adorn and perfume her, then he would take her to a well in the desert and tell her to look down into the well; when she would do this, he would push her into it from behind.

There were some men among these people who would forbid such acts, such as Sa’sa’ah ibn Naajiyah At-Tameemi, who would go to those attempting to kill their daughter offering money to ransom their lives.

There are people nowadays who share these same pre-Islamic beliefs; if they are granted only girls, which is of course something decreed only by Allaah, they become angry, discontent and grieved.

With the advent of Islam, the darkness of that era vanished and Allaah enjoined kindness, love and compassion towards girls. Taking good care of girls was encouraged, as was giving them special attention in the process of their upbringing. In fact, Islam has designated a special reward for raising them that is not granted for raising sons. Anas may Allaah be pleased with him reported that the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) said: "He who raises two daughters until their puberty will be with me in Paradise like this", and he symbolized the proximity by showing two of his fingers with a slight gap between them." (Muslim)


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Old 11-04-2015, 08:53 AM
 
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"Such honouring of daughters is the complete opposite of how people were accustomed to dealing with females in the pre-Islamic era, when they would degrade women "

Here's the problem. Perhaps MUSLIM omen were treated better, although Muhammed had many wives and women were not allowed to have many husbands, Muhammed hit a little girl who I think was considered Muslim by then. In fact, Aisha made a comment:

Also in this hadith, Aisha states that she has not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women, meaning Muslim women were suffering more than their pagan and Abrahamic counterparts.

"Narrated Ikrima: 'Rifaa divorced his wife whereupon Abdur-Rahman married her. Aisha said that the lady came wearing a green veil and complained to her (Aisha) and showed her a green spot on her skin caused by beating. It was the habit of ladies to support each other, so when Allah's messenger came, Aisha said, "I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!" Sahih Bukhari 7:6:715

Also, Muslim men are told by 'Allah' that they can beat their wives:

"Men have authority over women because God has made the one superior to the other, and because they spend their wealth to maintain them. Good women are obedient. They guard their unseen parts because God has guarded them. As for those whom you fear disobedience, admonish them and send them to beds apart and beat them. Then if they obey you, take no further action against them. Surely God is most high."
Qur'an 4:34

And, of course, we have Muhammed raping a 4th grade little girl:

Bukhari vol. 7, #65:
"Narrated Aisha that the prophet wrote the marriage contract with her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old.

But what Muhammed and his gang did to non-Muslim women is so horrible and perverted I am sickened by it.

Muhammed and his gang would attack a village, slaughter or capture the men and then mass rape the women.

The Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) sent a military expedition to Awtas on the occasion of the battle of Hunain. They met their enemy and fought with them. They defeated them and took them captives.
Some of the Companions of the Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) were reluctant to have intercourse with the female captives in the presence of their husbands who were unbelievers. So Allah, the Exalted, sent down the Qur’anic verse: (Sura 4:24) "And all married women (are forbidden) unto you save those (captives) whom your right hands possess." (Abu Dawud 2150, also Muslim 3433)

"O Allah's Apostle! We get female captives as our share of booty, and we are interested in their prices, what is your opinion about coitus interruptus?" The Prophet said, "Do you really do that? It is better for you not to do coitus interruptus. A soul that which Allah has destined to exist will surely come into existence.” (Bukhari 34:432)

"We went out with Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) on the expedition to the Bi'l-Mustaliq and took captive some excellent Arab women; and we desired them, for we were suffering from the absence of our wives, (but at the same time) we also desired ransom for them. So we decided to have sexual intercourse with them but by observing 'azl (Withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid-conception). But we said: We are doing an act whereas Allah's Messenger is amongst us; why not ask him? So we asked Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him), and he said: It does not matter" (Sahih Muslim 3371)

Muhammed would then sell or enslave these poor women, or give them out to other men as 'booty'.

"Then the apostle sent Sa-d b. Zayd al-Ansari, brother of Abdu'l-Ashal with some of the captive women of Banu Qurayza to Najd and he sold them for horses and weapons." (Ibn Ishaq/Hisham/Hisham 693)

I drove them along until I brought them to Abu Bakr who bestowed that girl upon me as a prize. So we arrived in Medina. I had not yet disrobed her when the Messenger of Allah met me in the street and said: “Give me that girl.” (Sahih Muslim 4345)

The apostle gave Ali a girl called Rayta; and he gave Uthman a girl called Zaynab; and he gave Umar a girl whom Umar gave to his son Abdullah. (Ibn Ishaq/Hisham 878)

Muhammed also ordered women to be slaughtered. For example....

"When the apostle heard what she had said he said, "Who will rid me of Marwan's daughter?" `Umayr b. `Adiy al-Khatmi who was with him heard him, and that very night he went to her house and killed her. In the morning he came to the apostle and told him what he had done and he [Muhammad] said, "You have helped God and His apostle, O `Umayr!" When he asked if he would have to bear any evil consequences the apostle said, "Two goats won't butt their heads about her", so `Umayr went back to his people."
Ibn Hisham & Ibn Ishaq, Sirat Rasul Allah[6]
Ibn Sa'd, Kitab al-tabaqat al-kabir, Volume 2[3]

Kill Fartana (a slave girl of Abdullah ibn Khatal), because she used to recite poems insulting Muhammad. Abu Dawud 14:2678
Ibn Hisham & Ibn Ishaq, Sirat Rasul Allah[86]
Ibn Sa'd, Kitab al-tabaqat al-kabir, Volume 2[84]

Since Muhammed is supposedly a perfect example for Muslims to follow, today in Islam we have child brides, honor killings, mass rapes of non-Muslim women, pedophilia, abuse of women, human rights abuses, etc.
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`Aa’ishah may Allaah be pleased with her related: "A woman by the name of Jameelah came to me with her two daughters. She asked me for charity but found nothing with me except a date, which I gave her. She divided it between her two daughters and ate nothing herself; then, she got up and left. After this, the Messenger of Allaah sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) came, so I narrated this story to him; he sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) said: “He who is involved (in the responsibility) of (nurturing) daughters and is generous to them, will have them as a fortification for himself against the Hellfire.” (Al-Bukhaari & Muslim) In another narration of this incident, `Aa’ishah may Allaah be pleased with her related: "A poor woman came to me with her two daughters. I gave her three dates; she gave each of them a date and was about to eat the third one when one of her daughters asked her for it, so she divided it between her two daughters and ate nothing herself, and I liked what she did. After this, the Messenger of Allaah sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) came, so I told him what she did, and he sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) said: 'Allaah obligated Paradise for her due to this date, and (also) freed her from Hell.'"(Muslim)

Pay close attention to wording of the following narration: the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) said: “He who is tested by (the guardianship) of daughters….” Why did he sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) use the word: “…tested…”? He said it because raising them is a responsibility and a test from Allaah to see how His slave would act: Will he be kind to them? Will he raise them correctly?

The nature of this responsibility was further clarified in other narrations, such as: “If he patiently feeds them and endows them with clothing …" (Ibn Maajah)., and: “…Provides for them and marries them off…” (At-Tabaraani)., and: “…Properly raises them and fears Allaah in the manner in which he deals with them.” (At-Tirmithi)

This is what is required when dealing with daughters: kindness, which results in Paradise, as the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) said: “Whoever Allaah has given two daughters and is kind towards them, will have them as a reason for him to be admitted into Paradise.” And: “Whoever Allaah has given three daughters and he perseveres through raising them, will have them as a shield for him from the Hellfire on the Day of Resurrection.”

A daughter is a great bounty and an honour granted by Allaah, Imaam Al-Hasan may Allaah have mercy upon him said: “Girls are a source of reward and sons are a blessing; rewards are in one's favour (on the Day of Judgement) whereas one will be held accountable for blessings.”

Thus, it is incorrect to believe that one has been humiliated by being granted a girl; rather it is an honour, a bounty and a gate towards Paradise. Daughters are a greate responsibility to rear, and entail greater expenditure, and this is why the reward for raising them correctly is greater than that for a son.

Once, one of the leaders of the believers was receiving people when a small daughter of his entered the room, so he kissed her; a Bedouin was also in attendance and saw this, so he mentioned daughters in a very evil manner. A wise man who was also present witnessed all of this and therefore said: "O leader of the believers! Do not listen to him. I swear by Allaah, that it is they (i.e., girls) who stay up to care for the sick in the family, who show mercy towards the elders, and who stand next to men during hardships."

A man was granted a baby girl, so he became angry and isolated himself from his wife for a long time, and after few months, he overheard his wife reciting the verse (which means): “…But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you…” [Quran 2:216]

How many girls have been far more merciful and beneficial to their parents than their brothers? How many times has a son been a source of grief for his parents, to the point that they wished he was never born?

Why do we raise this topic now? It is due to the vicious attacks on the Muslims under the pretext of defending 'women’s rights' which is in reality an evil attempt to play on the emotions of women so that they will become rebellious towards their fathers and husbands, and to encourage them to leave their homes and demand their 'freedom'. This is a gate towards evil and immorality which gradually attracts women and then traps them in prohibitions. One cause of girls falling into this is people neglecting their daughters and undermining their rights, which makes them easily fall into the traps of the hypocritical writers and columnists, male and female, who wish to see corruption prevail.

It is enough of an honour for girls that the Prophets may Allaah exalt their mention, had daughters and that most of the children of our beloved Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) were daughters, namely: Zaynab, Ruqayyah, Umm Kalthoom and Faatimah
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