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Old 01-13-2010, 08:41 PM
 
Location: Unknown
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In the west if a wife/girlfriend cheats on her husband/boyfriend, does her husband/boyfriend support her actions? No, and this verse meant about things similar to that, things that could ruin your relationship/marriage with your partner.
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Old 01-13-2010, 09:37 PM
 
Location: south saudi
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So, since , as you say men and women are equal under Islam, then the wife can take the 'toothbrush' and tap her husband for his misdeeds?

Probably not, as the men are the most important partner in Islam? Women, are as property to muslim men.

Definitely they are equal with commensurate with the nature them

he as men ... she as women ...


As for why isn’t it directly prescribed for the wife to hit her husband back wen he hits her…. Well, I had read somewhere that God doesn’t want the situation in the house to get worse,,,, ki the husband is beating the wife.. and now wife is also beating the husband….both beating each other.
Hmm. Sounds logical, though.. if u ask me… if my husband beats me, I wont beat him back for fear that he beat me back (again) harder since normally men have more power and strength.



Greater punishment for the man not 'toothbrush' but be that leave him


while ''toothbrush'' will not effect at him as men (that very little)

his wife ( Islam has given to wife the choose if was he bad) As a last resort....

then do you want his wife beat you with ''toothbrush'' ?


jmoool
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Old 01-14-2010, 09:03 AM
 
Location: Eastern Kentucky
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All I can say is my husband better keep his "toothbrush" to himself. Otherwise, I'm comming back with a baseball bat.
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Old 01-14-2010, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Dubai
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I'm a Muslim and I totally agree with Jamooool, because
I read about that on Islamic book
^_*
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Old 01-14-2010, 09:50 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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if u ask me… if my husband beats me, I wont beat him back for fear that he beat me back (again) harder since normally men have more power and strength.
Hire me as your personal trainer. I'll train you to beat men and also pack some biceps and triceps out in the meantime

A muslim body buildress with a wrestler's build is unheard of. You'll be a celebrity.
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Old 01-14-2010, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Toronto, ON
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Shout it down at Mobarek. It's our fault; all of our faults in the nations of Islam and the Israel region!!

Allah is punishing US. Ahmedinajad cuts my hands off for bad typing. We apply our talents too much anyway....
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Old 01-14-2010, 09:16 PM
 
Location: The Land of Reason
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Funny how that works, eh? Ancient cultures really sucked in a variety of ways.

Methinks this is the time that beck, hannity and rush speak so fondly about
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Old 01-20-2010, 05:19 PM
 
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Definitely they are equal with commensurate with the nature them

he as men ... she as women ...
jmoool
I don't think so! These 2 recent incidents in Saudi should tell you something:

AFP: 'Illegal' Saudi women's gym shut: media

Saudi girl, 13, sentenced to 90 lashes after she took a mobile phone to school | Mail Online

Saudi women can not have health clubs and men have them!

A 13 year old girl will probably die because she carried a cell phone to school?

How barbaric is that?

I really do feel sorry for you jmool. You are trying to justify an extremely repressive regime. I understand you live there and have never known anything else. I pray someday you may be able to escape. I feel the same way for the oppressed people in North Korea and Iran.
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Old 01-20-2010, 07:49 PM
 
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I don't think so! These 2 recent incidents in Saudi should tell you something:

AFP: 'Illegal' Saudi women's gym shut: media

Saudi girl, 13, sentenced to 90 lashes after she took a mobile phone to school | Mail Online

Saudi women can not have health clubs and men have them!

A 13 year old girl will probably die because she carried a cell phone to school?

How barbaric is that?

I really do feel sorry for you jmool. You are trying to justify an extremely repressive regime. I understand you live there and have never known anything else. I pray someday you may be able to escape. I feel the same way for the oppressed people in North Korea and Iran.
There is gyms for women, women are allowed to go to the gyms, its just segregated, now these acts do happen from time to time but that does not mean every female gym will be shut.

As for the second link, its just one of those laws that don't get implemented, and i could bet you anything that she wouldn't end up getting lashed.

People the media exaggerates, dont believe everything you hear.
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Old 01-20-2010, 10:20 PM
 
Location: Austin, Texas
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Hmmm..maybe this Islam stuff ain't so wacky after all!
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