Rick
This may be an "out of the box" suggestion but if I was 55 I would look at Sweetwater. It is 55+ but not your average 55+
They have an incredible hall that has a pool. workout center, business/media center/pool tables and tons of social gatherings. We have friends that live there and they are constantly busy doing something. When I went to visit I asked if they ever made exceptions on the age thing

Right across the highway is a "A" elementary school Twin Lake elementary.
It is 35 mins 35 if you drive fast from the airport and 15 mins to Mayo.
I will be on vacation for the next 10 days but when I get back I can get any info you might want
karla